dialated pouch + total unfill.....................

["Just Jess"]

ok - today i had a UGI scheduled to check the hiatal hernia and see if we can't get to the bottom of this horrible night reflux i've been having........ in addition, i had a seperate appt. scheduled for a fill bc lately i've been able to eat most anything.

well................ turns out - the reason i can eat more is bc my pouch is dialated. the doc said there are many reasons for this to occur - none of which are good - the most common being that the band was too tight. which i NEVER would have suspected. the next would be that i was over eating. so, i asked - how would i know if i was over eating? he said i'd have pain (((i have no pain))) or that i would be excessively PBing or worse yet vomiting after eating (((no excessive PBs and never vomiting!))) so i'm just in that "other" percent of people that this "just happens" to. i suppose just like i "just happened" to have a port that needed to be restitched. ugh!

sooooooooooooooooo, what now?

well, he completely unfilled me today. all 7cc's taken out. i now wait 2 weeks until july 24th - where i'll have another UGI to see if the dialation has gone down. if it has, he will give me an adjustment. if not - we talk options (i just pray i will not need another surgery).

he gave me a stronger medication for my reflux and told me to take it regardless of symptoms going away bc i don't want to do any more damage to my esophogus.

of course, i just hate that this is all happening - i'm just feeling sorry for myself all day today - pity party for jessica............ the worse part is of course that it is less than a month until my wedding day.
BOOOOOOO! :sad:

i will try my VERY best to make good eating decisions between now and then and keep exercising in order to try to maintain (if not, lose!) my current weight (which was 217.5 at the doc's office, btw! that would be the ONLY slice of good news i received today!!!!!!!!!!!!)

wish me luck over the next 2 weeks!

[TwinMom]

Oh Jess - That just STINKS!!

We have never officially "met" but I have read so many of your posts and seen your pictures, and am excited about your wedding....... so i am just crushed by this news for you.

I am sure you will be so busy and excited this next month that food will be the last thing on your mind....then the wedding/honeymoon ....then you can get back on track. I sure hope it corrects itself so you don't have to have another surgery.......

Keep you chin up.

[HeatherGurl]

Wow, girl! That is the LAST thing I would have expected to hear... so sorry. Hopefully it will all correct itself!
My pouch was dialated also, but it did correct itself. I had the same symptoms as you, but I couldn't keep anything down at all. Just take good care of yourself, watch what you eat and drink and keep up the exercise. You should be fine.
I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers!!! HUGE HUGS for you!

[JDru]

Oh no Jess, that is though news to hear. Hopefully your unfill will resolve the dialation and you'll be back on your way to restriction. Congrats on getting down to 217!! :)

[Shellster]

Congrats on 217! I'm so proud! I hate that this is happening. We're in a similar boat - we need to support each other! I know you can deal with the 2 weeks...you'll do great. Try to keep your head banded...that's what I've been doing. Dr. V deflated me on 7/3 and I'm like this for 6-8 weeks! (slipped band) So far, I've maintained and you will as well. I know you can do it!!!! PM me if you need me....I'll kick your butt or pat your back and let you cry. Whichever you need....love ya!

[Txblue_eyedqt]

Im so sorry to hear that Jess, I will pray that you have the strength to keep your good eating habits in gear and keep on exercising too! Im sorry to hear you are having to go thru this hurdle and plan a wedding. Keeping good thoughts coming your way! Stay strong girl!!

Cynthia

[MoOrLess]

Jess - sending big HUGS your way! I'm sorry this is added to the usual stress a wedding brings with it -- but I know YOU will do fine. You've been hit with a few unusual things with banded life - and you have overcome every single one of them! You can do this! Just log ALL of your food on the daily plate or one of those sites and take your medicine EVERY day!!! woo hoo on the 217!!! that is amazing - you kicked that gained weight right to the curb - on your own - without a fill - see - you can do this!!!

I wanted to add - I was thinking -- is "reflux" sometimes the ONLY way to know you are having band issues? It seems to be a running theme as of late with quite a few of our banded folks - just wondering....

[Neal R.]

Jess, Sorry to hear, but keeping my fingers crossed that it works itself out. Best of luck.

[newlifeat57]

Jess, May God bless you during this time. You definitely have had your share of bumps in the road and have been victorious over all of them. Congratulations on the 217!!! Best wishes, always!

[little t]

Oh Jess! That is so awful that this happened to you! You are doing so well though, that I can see you losing more weight before the wedding!

[deb]

Hey Jess, sorry to hear that, hopefully the unfill will take care of it.

["Just" Paul]

Jess...

Call me if you need me. 'kay?

You'll be OK... cause you are a dedicated survivor...


IN my book, you're a real loser!!!!!!! :heh:

[kristina]

jess honey i am so sorry to hear this. but i do have absolute faith that you are going to be okay. you will not gain any weight, and you will be at your goal for your wedding! i am not banded and i just lost 4 pounds. u can do this girl. i think it will totally correct itself, and you will be filled back up in no time! its okay to be sad about this...its only natrual...but you do have the most positive attitude i have seen on this forum and i know you will recover quickly!
i will pray for a full and complete recovery.
God Bless you girl.

[PhotoNut]

Wow, talk about being blind-sided! I was so surprised to read this thread! Poor Jess!! You've sure had your fill (no pun intended) of band issues, haven't you? Good grief.

All that reflux.. I'm telling ya folks. Do not just accept reflux as par for the course and cover it up with meds. So often it's an indication of problems that can be easily taken care of if caught in time.

Jess, I'll be praying for you. Hopefully you'll be so busy you won't have time to think about eating. Having this happen when you're bored would be tough! Keep busy, keep focused, and keep positive thoughts! We'll all be doing the same thing for ya!

Shelley, I had no idea that your band had slipped! Bless your heart. I hate it when I get so far behind on what's going on with everyone! Do you have a thread about it?

And then there's Kathy with her flipped port and possible leak. Is it just the time of year, or what?!

*hugs Jess and Shelley and Kathy* Hang in there girls. You're going to come thru this just fine and you'll have great "war stories" to share with others.

Much love to each of you!

[bgrand]

Jess, your a survivor and this will not deter you! Here for you if you need anything.

["Just Jess"]

:Cry: honest to god, i am sitting here crying my eyes out. you all have MUCH MUCH more faith in me than i have in myself.......... again and again i state - the support on this board is OVERWHELMING. it BAFFLES me that anyone for ANY reason could ever say a bad word about this place. i am so touched - and so proud to have you all as my friends. :Cry:


i am going to do my VERY VERY best to be good. i have already called on vinny to watch me and correct me as needed. i've reached out for his help and i know he knows how much i mean it - and need it.

i love you, all of you! :love: my heart was truly crushed this morning - and now it is just swelled with love. thank you for all your support. i know i can get through this - just like all the other "crap" --- but it sure is a lot easier sometimes to just feel sorry for yourself and throw in the towel ((((like buying a freaking bag of peanut butter m&ms on my way home from the doctor's appt. bc he prescribed me a stronger reflux medication --- and they were on sale at CVS --- and oh no, not the little snack size bag - i'm talking the "medium" sized bag. and yes, about half of them are gone...................................... why do i always resort to my old habits? feeling sad??? FEED IT WITH CHOCOLATE! ugggggggggh!)))) anyway - it's done - i can't undo it. i can only go from here.

i already had a heart to heart with terri - i knew she'd understand how crushing this was for me. of course, first i called vinny to cry. then my mom. then my dear BBFF terri her for support and a kick in the ass before i slipped up. but i slipped up anyway (no reflection on you, terri - i was just feeling crappy and that's what i do).

anyway - you're all amazing - you don't have to have me tell you that to know that. this place is MAGIC. p'nut - thank you! dawg - thank you! mods - thank you! if i didn't have this to come home to and spill... i might be at the bottom of that bag of m&ms right now sitting in a pool of tears. but no - i posted my woes on here... then i got up and walked out of my apt and went and had a mani/pedi and just tried to forget about it. it worked. i feel better. and again ---- THANK YOU! ALL OF YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

["Just Jess"]

We have never officially "met" but I have read so many of your posts and seen your pictures, and am excited about your wedding....... so i am just crushed by this news for you.
thanks for your support, twin mom --- i hope we get a chance to talk more... i appreciate your excitement for my big day even though you don't "know" me!!!! it's truly touching. :hug:


Wow, girl! That is the LAST thing I would have expected to hear... so sorry. Hopefully it will all correct itself! My pouch was dialated also, but it did correct itself. I had the same symptoms as you, but I couldn't keep anything down at all.
yeh, i'm always different - he asks all these questions and seems to appear to expect a certain answer, and i never fit the bill. i wonder if he things i'm lying and that i'm at home every night yacking up my dinner to fit more in????? eww. i pray that mine will correct itself as well. how long did that take for you? he scheduled me for a UGI to check on it in 2 weeks. i hope that's enough time!!!! did your doc give you a fill right away when it was corrected? have you had any other issues related since? have you gone about eating, etc. differently since???? sorry for all the questions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :hug:


Oh no Jess, that is though news to hear. Hopefully your unfill will resolve the dialation and you'll be back on your way to restriction. Congrats on getting down to 217!! :) thanks, jess. it was nice that a TEENY bit of good news came out of today, isn't it? :hug:


We're in a similar boat - we need to support each other! I know you can deal with the 2 weeks...you'll do great. Try to keep your head banded...that's what I've been doing. Dr. V deflated me on 7/3 and I'm like this for 6-8 weeks! (slipped band) So far, I've maintained and you will as well. I know you can do it!!!! PM me if you need me....I'll kick your butt or pat your back and let you cry. Whichever you need....love ya! ooooooooooooooooooo... more tears... dammit! :hug: shelley - i love you! and YES, we need to exchange numbers. i'm SO proud to hear you've maintained and i'm SO sorry to not have known this happened to you to have been supporting you better before this! did you post about it???? i feel i've been so self-absorbed latey. i apologize if i missed it. in any case, i'll PM you my number and i'll def. give you a call next week and we can chat about strategies to beat this time. 6-7 weeks! OMG! i feel for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how did you band slip? do you know?


I will pray that you have the strength to keep your good eating habits in gear and keep on exercising too!
thank you, cynthia! lord knows i'm going to need those prayers!! i know the person i was before being banded and let me tell you: THAT GIRL CAN EAT! so i like what shelley said about "keeping your head banded" that really is the best way to think about it. thanks for your support. :hug:


You've been hit with a few unusual things with banded life - and you have overcome every single one of them! You can do this! i have --- thank you for reminding me of that! it's not always easy to remember those things when they're so far removed. :hug: love ya, mo!


I wanted to add - I was thinking -- is "reflux" sometimes the ONLY way to know you are having band issues? It seems to be a running theme as of late with quite a few of our banded folks - just wondering.... that's a great point. it might be our "RED FLAG" to get checked out right away! i wish i did sooner and maybe this wouldn't have been the issue it has become. i remember talking to shelley and some others at the NC g2g back a few months ago about my reflux and at THAT point it had been going on for a few weeks... so i've just been dealing and trying to get through it. DON'T DO THAT!!! GET CHECKED OUT!!!!!!!!!



Jess, May God bless you during this time. You definitely have had your share of bumps in the road and have been victorious over all of them. Congratulations on the 217!!! Best wishes, always! thanks so much, newlife!!!!!!!!!! :) i appreciate your support very much. :hug:


Jess, Sorry to hear, but keeping my fingers crossed that it works itself out. Best of luck. thanks, neal. :hug:


Oh Jess! That is so awful that this happened to you! You are doing so well though, that I can see you losing more weight before the wedding! i sure hope that all the faith you have in me, and everyone else on here seems to have in me, pulls through! i need to find it within myself to believe that i can. it's just so hard to imagine that i could not have been this successful without the band - and here i am. back at square 1 - having lost over 90 lbs. PRAYING that none of them come back without me being able to rely on my band "alarm" to tell me to STOP. thanks, tami - love ya, girl! :hug:


Hey Jess, sorry to hear that, hopefully the unfill will take care of it. i sure hope your appt. goes better than mine, girl!! thanks for checking in on me. :hug:


Jess... Call me if you need me. 'kay? You'll be OK... cause you are a dedicated survivor... IN my book, you're a real loser!!!!!!! :heh: :hug: thanks for the laugh, friend! i love ya! i needed that. you're a loser, too. hehe :kiss:


you will not gain any weight, and you will be at your goal for your wedding! thank you for your prayers, kristina. and i think your words above will become my new mantra!

I WILL NOT GAIN ANY WEIGHT.
I WILL BE AT MY GOAL FOR MY WEDDING.

:hug: thanks, girlfriend!!!!


Wow, talk about being blind-sided! I was so surprised to read this thread! Poor Jess!! You've sure had your fill (no pun intended) of band issues, haven't you? Good grief. :hug: again, thanks for the laugh --- you, always with the puns! haha ----- and you're so right about the war stories ---- i hope if nothing more comes from this than helping others understand the "other" side of the band and the issues you CAN have - will at least help. i know there isn't much you can do to avoid these problems - at least not the ones i've had. so you just do the best you can and be the best bandster you can be and hope for the best. it's in god's hands and i firmly believe he doesn't give us anything more than we can handle. so apparently, god must think i'm pretty damn strong - bc here i am planning a wedding, working my tail off at the gym, teaching summer school, getting ready for the trip of a lifetime, training a new teammate, and all the "other" normal stuff of my day-to-day grind............. and now this. so - maybe i should be flattered at the complement? hmmmmmmm... thanks, god - for thinking so highly of me. haha



Jess, your a survivor and this will not deter you! Here for you if you need anything. thanks, betty! i AM a surivivor! :hug:



"i've got all my life to live and i've got all my love to give... i'll survive! I WILL SURVIVE!!"

[Stitchy]

Jess, I am so sorry. I'll put on my Karma thoughts and you WILL get through this successfully.

My Karma thoughts work for getting good parking places (parking Karma), camping spots (camping Karma). Whatever is needed. Any you need it, Sweetie.

[PhotoNut]

Now I'm the one crying. THIS is what b2g is all about.

Thank --you--, Jess!!

[WildAlaskaG'ma]

Shucky DARN, Jess. Another challenge to rise above. But I know you can do it. Remember your band was only the tool that you used. All the magic & hard work came from YOU !!! I know that doing it without the band is scary ,,, but it's not impossible !!! Get your mo jo stirred up and keep on keeping on, girlfriend. We're all behind you here !!!

[Dustbunny]

Oh man Jess I am sorry to hear of your troubles. Everything will work out for the best.
But the worrisome thing for me is that you have reached 217 and will soon be one of those plummeting losers passing me by. Oh i am sure I'm still losing, but on a cellular level. Hey I'm down an electron!
At least on the way by we can hug close to 200. You will do well because you are a strong woman and have so many people here thinking positive thoughts for you.
Now go undialate. Hugs DB

[GirlyGirl]

Jess, I'm just checking in and saw this thread. My good thoughts are with you just as everyone else's are. Sorry you are going through this. I know you have so much support but just wanted to let you know that I am pulling for ya!

J

[Stitchy]

What is a dialated pouch? Is that stretched?

[chrispygal]

Oh Jess I am just reading this now and I can't believe it! I am so sorry!!!!!

Honestly, at this juncture in your life (a.k.a. weeks before your wedding) don't focus on the band, but on the wonderful wedding you will be having. There is NO WAY you'll gain all the weight back or that you'll gain even enough that anyone will be able to tell a difference. In fact, I bet you maintain if not lose. The wedding is still great motivation and just tell yourself that you have to be good just until the wedding. Eat lots of salads with lean proteins, limit those carbs, and just keep envisioning yourself walking down the aisle in that beautiful dress!! Then, go on your honeymoon, enjoy yourself, and then come home and deal with all this. You get married once Jess and as we ALL know, weight issues last for life. lol.

Again, I am so sorry this has happened to you!!!! Gosh, I'm devastated I can't imagine how you feel! :bigarmhug:

[SpookyJulz]

Jess~
There's not much that I can say that hasn't already been said. It is best to get things taken care of. Your health is most important!!!
I'll be sending Light and Love to you!!

[Nick N Ava's Grammy]

Jess.. my heart sank when I read this post. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you.. praying for you.. and also.. I mailed out your package today.. hope it brightens your day when you get it. I made it with lots of love for you and Vinny.

Take care and I know you'll get thru this with flying colors.

[503-250]

Jess, you are a warrior...it's time to put back on your angry newbie hat. You fought like a wildcat when you first started, refused to let restriction be the only thing that guided you and you will do it again.

Journal, prepare your food in advance and focus on the wedding and when you get hungry and shouldn't be eating, get up and go for a walk, call me, call Terri...lean on your support as much as you have to.

Also, mani and pedi as often as needed, Vinnie will understand!

You can do this, I have total faith in you.

[MamaMichelle]

Sorry to hear about the bad news Jess, I know you can do it without the fill for a little while... You are such a great bandster role model and cheerleader for all of us!

[Jachut]

Oh bugger. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

Weirdly I know about three people with this same problem, who have all been unfilled in recent weeks. They're all frantic about gaining of course.

I was saying that I think I'd go back on Lite n Easy (home delivered calorie controlled meals) because it ALWAYS worked for me (till I went off it, lol) and it would give me peace of mind and limits to know I wasnt overeating. That and continue running as if the devil were chasing me!.

I'm sure you can do it Jess. Hopefully it will be fixed up soon and you can be refilled.

[HeatherGurl]

Jess... I was unfilled for quite some time... maybe a month or 2? I don't exactly remember, but I know it was longer than 2 weeks. They told me to come back in 2 weeks, but I was enjoying having no fill way too much. I gained a lot of weight back very quickly because ALL I did was eat the crap I couldn't have for so long.
When I did go back and everything had normalized... I got a small fill by my choice. I am so scared to get too tight again. After that incident... I have not been dilated again, but I did have heartburn issues. I went and got a small unfill and have been doing great since. Stress and my period are a huge factor for me... I have to mainly live on soups and mushies during my period. All other times, I can eat healthy like a normal bandster.
Just stay focused and remember how far you have come... I know all too well how very easy it is to fall off the wagon when something like this happens to you.
I have every confidence in you that you will stay the course and if you do get tempted by the "naughty" things... just post here and we will help stray your attention away:)
Love you so much and I know that if you baby that band... it will correct itself.

["Just Jess"]

Jess, I am so sorry. I'll put on my Karma thoughts and you WILL get through this successfully. My Karma thoughts work for getting good parking places (parking Karma), camping spots (camping Karma). Whatever is needed. Any you need it, Sweetie. thank you, stitch! i'm going to need that karma!!! ;)


Now I'm the one crying. THIS is what b2g is all about. Thank --you--, Jess!! love ya, mamma bear! :love:


Shucky DARN, Jess. Another challenge to rise above. But I know you can do it. Remember your band was only the tool that you used. All the magic & hard work came from YOU !!! I know that doing it without the band is scary ,,, but it's not impossible !!! Get your mo jo stirred up and keep on keeping on, girlfriend. We're all behind you here !!! it IS scary. but other than the M&M incident yesterday, i did not eat anything more than what i normally would have. so- yes, i CAN do this!


Oh man Jess I am sorry to hear of your troubles. Everything will work out for the best. But the worrisome thing for me is that you have reached 217 and will soon be one of those plummeting losers passing me by. Oh i am sure I'm still losing, but on a cellular level. Hey I'm down an electron! At least on the way by we can hug close to 200. You will do well because you are a strong woman and have so many people here thinking positive thoughts for you. Now go undialate. Hugs DB going forth to UNdilate! hehehehe ;) thanks, db! you made me smile!!! :) and btw, i have been spelling "dilate" wrong in every post until i did some google searching on it last nigh... hahaha - whoops! it's DILATE! in case anyone else wants to search some on it.


Jess, I'm just checking in and saw this thread. My good thoughts are with you just as everyone else's are. Sorry you are going through this. I know you have so much support but just wanted to let you know that I am pulling for ya! J i appreciate every bit of support anyone is wlling to offer. thanks, jeralin!!!!


What is a dialated pouch? Is that stretched? my understanding is that the upper stomach (above the band) has grown due to the band being too tight (WHO THE HELL WOULD HAVE THOUGHT THAT?!) and excess food sitting up there unable to pass through... now my doc said he was surprised to her i did not have pain when eating or PBs, vomiting, etc. but as i said in my initial post - i did not have any of those. i mean, i had a PB every now and again just like everyone else - but it was usually my own stupidity (not chewing well enough, drinking too soon after eating, etc.) and i just wrote it off as such. but never any chest pain!!!!!


Jess~ There's not much that I can say that hasn't already been said. It is best to get things taken care of. Your health is most important!!! I'll be sending Light and Love to you!! thanks, julz! :hug:


Eat lots of salads with lean proteins, limit those carbs, and just keep envisioning yourself walking down the aisle in that beautiful dress!! Then, go on your honeymoon, enjoy yourself, and then come home and deal with all this. You get married once Jess and as we ALL know, weight issues last for life. lol. thanks for the advice, chris! it is definetely good! vin and i were trying to sketch out a plan in the car yesterday on our way to PA (pit stop on the way to NY for another wedding this weekend --- he's the groomsmen to one of our groomsmen!) anyway, i said the same thing. "i'll eat salads with chicken for lunch (panara's summer strawberry poppy seed salad is my FAV) and we'll do a lot of fruit salad for "desserts" and keep dinner's light. i can do this. vin is a big fan of the weight watchers points (that is how he lost all his weight) and wants me to do that with him. so i may consider it as well. except i hate calculating things - so if he's willing to keep track for me - i may go for it! ;)


Jess.. my heart sank when I read this post. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you.. praying for you.. and also.. I mailed out your package today.. hope it brightens your day when you get it. I made it with lots of love for you and Vinny. Take care and I know you'll get thru this with flying colors. thanks donna! i appreciate all your kind words and thoughts and cannot wait to see what this package might be!! :) thanks in advance for being so sweet.


Jess, you are a warrior...it's time to put back on your angry newbie hat... You can do this, I have total faith in you. angry newbie hat! hahaha - thanks, ralph. i love ya, you know that. i just may be calling you to cry... or complain... thanks for always being there for me! you've really seen the ups and DOWNS with this girl, haven't you???? :hug:


Sorry to hear about the bad news Jess, I know you can do it without the fill for a little while... You are such a great bandster role model and cheerleader for all of us! role model???? oh my! thanks for THAT michelle - i don't know if i concur - but i do try my best. thank you!!!!!!!!


Weirdly I know about three people with this same problem, who have all been unfilled in recent weeks. They're all frantic about gaining of course. i wonder why it seems so frequent???? weird. i was reading some studies that it might have something to do with the placement of the band. i wonder.

i am so sorry to hear your other friends are gaining --- i hope to be the exception to this group of people you know!!!!!!!!!!!


Just stay focused and remember how far you have come... I know all too well how very easy it is to fall off the wagon when something like this happens to you. I have every confidence in you that you will stay the course and if you do get tempted by the "naughty" things... just post here and we will help stray your attention away:)Love you so much and I know that if you baby that band... it will correct itself. oh!! i do recall you sharing this trouble, i am glad you rectified this situation for yourself!! i will stay away from the naughties. :) thanks, girl. love you soooo much!!!

["Just Jess"]

after doing some research on the topic - this is what i've learned:

What is a normal pouch?
The gastrointestinal tract is made of smooth muscle which streches and constricts to pass food along the tract and to accommodate different sizes and consistencies of food. The lapband is surgically places a the gastroesophageal junction where the esophagus wides and becomes the upper part of the stomach. When the band is tighteded, it narrows this area creating an hour glass appearance and a small pouch of stomach above the band. It is the small pouch that aids in your weight loss by limiting the amount of food you can eat at one time. Once it is stretched, you will feel a fullness or slight pressure in your chest area. This is a signal to stop eating. (Some people also experience hiccuping, runny nose, and other things.)

What happens when a pouch is dilated?
The pouch can be overstretched by overating, eating too fast, taking bites that are too big, eating foods that are uncomfortable, vomiting, or having your band too tight. If you continually overstretch your pouch, you can cause your pouch to dilate or "stretch out" and then it will hold more food. You may notice weight gain or that you can eat larger portions of food. If you continue eating the larger portions, it worses the problem by further stretching the pouch.

What should I do if I think I have a dilation or slip?
Although these complications are not common (I think they are more common than they are reported, but that is my opinion and not in any way based on fact.) they can be serious. Summarizing now...Follow the rules. If you think there is a problem, go get it checked out. Don't wait.

What will happen if I am diagnosed with a dilation or slip?
For most dilations or slips the first non-surgical step to treat the problem is to remove all fluid from the band to allow the system to rest. This will relieve some of the stress on the pouch which has led to dilation and hopefully allow the pouch to regain some of its tone so that it can again function to limit portions. (Translation - back to liquids.) In a slip, removing the fluid enlarges the stoma, increasing the chances that the stomach which slipped above the band can slip back down.


here is an interesting study i came across too, if anyone enjoys reading those: http://content.karger.com/ProdukteDB/produkte.asp?Aktion=ShowFulltext&ArtikelNr=50127&Ausgabe=227696&ProduktNr=223996

[innotu]

Jess,

I'm new here and have drawn much support from your postings - thank you for sharing your experiences. Although I've only been on this site a short time, I have found it to be inspirational, supportive and informative - I believe you have something special here.

I'm so sorry to hear about the problems you're having but I know you'll overcome this challenge just as you've done with your other challenges - you are an inspiration for us newbies! and of course this goes without saying - You will be a positively beautiful bride!

[Shellster]

Okay girl...caught up on your post. The m & m thing.....move on. I had the same thing with about a cup of cheez puffs. It's over and on we go.....we're both strong enough and have trained ourselves well enough to keep it together and let ourselves heal. I know you can do it.....pm me your number and we'll discuss strategies.....great idea.

Try to keep everything in perspective. That's what I've been trying to do....I didn't post a thread on mine. I only put something about it here and in the NC forum. I just try to keep living exactly like I have restriction (eating/exercising/portions)....the only difference is I get hungry faster and my stomach growls much more. (God, it's loud!) I try not to think about it because I'm hoping it will correct itself and we'll go from there - or I have revision surgery and go from there. I do not want to think about the potential that it could be removed totally if there was an additional problem found. You guys would have a serious meltdown on your hands if that happens - ha...pray for me and I'll do the same for you. Love ya!

[Tricia K.]

Oh wow, that sucks! I'm sure everything will be fine. Just make good food choices and you may find that you'll still lose more weight before the wedding.

And, congrats on 217!

[little t]

Jess, you must understand that you have made so many changes in the way you eat and your excercise since you have been banded! You are NOT the same person you used to be! That girl is long gone! You must must must believe in yourself! We all love you!

["Just Jess"]

Jess, I'm new here and have drawn much support from your postings - thank you for sharing your experiences. Although I've only been on this site a short time, I have found it to be inspirational, supportive and informative - I believe you have something special here.

I'm so sorry to hear about the problems you're having but I know you'll overcome this challenge just as you've done with your other challenges - you are an inspiration for us newbies! and of course this goes without saying - You will be a positively beautiful bride!
i appreciate you taking the time to post on this thread... i hope to get toknow you better and see you posting more! thank you for your support!


...I try not to think about it because I'm hoping it will correct itself and we'll go from there - or I have revision surgery and go from there. I do not want to think about the potential that it could be removed totally if there was an additional problem found. You guys would have a serious meltdown on your hands if that happens - ha...pray for me and I'll do the same for you. Love ya!
absolutely! we'll lean on each other, girl!!!!


Oh wow, that sucks! I'm sure everything will be fine. Just make good food choices and you may find that you'll still lose more weight before the wedding. And, congrats on 217! thanks, tricia!


Jess, you must understand that you have made so many changes in the way you eat and your excercise since you have been banded! You are NOT the same person you used to be! That girl is long gone! You must must must believe in yourself! We all love you! thank you tami - between yesterday and today (one day at a time, right?) i have not eaten anything that i would have otherwise... so, so far - so good.

[kristina]

i have not eaten anything that i would have otherwise... so, so far - so good.[/quote]

awesome job JESS! we all knew you could do it!

[PhotoNut]

Thanks for sharing that information you found! This is an excellent educational thread for us all. Sorry it came at your expense tho, Jess. *hugs*

Shelley, your attitude and inner-strength impress the heck out of me!

[MoOrLess]

Hang in there Jess! I think of you daily - you can do this -- WW or bandster basics - whatever it takes, I know you'll do it - because you've hit roadblocks before and have never given up - you just keep on fighting girl - and you'll win in the long run!

Thanks for posting all of the informative info -- it could happen to any one of us.

[redgrldj]

Ok I'll be the mean person LOL.. Jess you know how to make it work.. Stay away from the crap, stop crying and feeling sorry for yourself.. If you feel down get out and do something.. Stay away from temptations.. Brush your teeth if you get the urge to eat, cause no one wants to eat with clean teeth..

You have one month, do not take a step back .. You are a strong woman that alot of people here look up too.. You need to act like the leader we all know you are..

[Neener]

Just wanted to send hugs and prayers to you Jess. I know you are having a tough time right now but I have faith in you. You are a strong woman and you can do this. Just concentrate on your upcoming marriage and think happy thoughts. I was completely unfilled on 6/23 and I have to wait until 7/31 for a fill. One day at a time is all we can do.

I really enjoy reading all your posts and looking at your pics. You seem like such a happy go lucky person. Wish there were more of you in the world!!

Take care,
Gina

[brwneyedbeauty]

Aww Jess I just found this..I'm sorry this has to happen to you. I'm keeping my fingers crossed when you go back all is calmed down.
Take care ;-)

Cheri

[stac1982]

Girl, this SUCKS that it has happened to you! But like others have said, you know what to do. It's gonna be ok. Take care of yourself and it will be no time before you get you fill back. You rock and will keep on rocking though this!

["Just Jess"]

thank you SO MUCH to everyone who has - and is continuing to - lend your support, encouragement, prayers, etc. - IT IS SO APPRECITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!

this weekend was actually OK. (vinny was in a wedding and we were in upstate NY since thursday night) given my issue, I am THRILLED to report that I ate pretty much the same amount I normally would. The only differences I’ve noticed thus far is MY STOMACH GROWLS… and LOUD… and OFTEN. It’s truly embarrassing... it reminds me of the pre-op diet days....... ((maybe the stomach is my angry newbie - but hey, i'm under control!))

Honestly, when I eat – I’m eating about the same amount I was with the band filled. So, I guess my body is now used to getting that amount regardless. Hopefully, that stays!!!!!!! I ate a bit more breakfast food than I normally would - but I really wasn't hungry for lunch - so I had less than my usual - so I guess it all evens out.

Anyway, THANKS AGAIN to you all!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YA!!!!!! :love:

[WildAlaskaG'ma]

Luv ya back, Jess !!! Keep up the great attitude and good choices !!!

[Jachut]

Way to go Jess, you can do this!

[chrispygal]

That's great to hear Jess!!

[Txblue_eyedqt]

Hey Jess,
Just thinking about you. Im glad you are doing great with your eating!
Keep up the good work, stay focused. I know you have great support at home, as I see from another thread...emmm bra-man to the rescue!! LOL

Cynthia

[DebbieChoos]

Wow, where have I been? Jess I gotta know that if there is anyone out there that can beat this it will be you!! I know that you will get these last pounds off before the wedding - and it will be ALL YOU!!

["Just Jess"]

thanks, sweetie.

you all are just so truly great.

[Halo]

You can do it Jess!!!

[Italiangirl33]

Jess..I am so sorry that this is happening to you..Stay positive as hard as it is..maybe it will all work out..You are doing so so good and u really are so inspiring to us new people..everything will turn out..KEEP THE FAITH..

["Just Jess"]

thanks halo and mar! i appreciate your support......... and omg, do i need it!

i'm so worried --- this morning the scale said 220!! :sad: this is bad... very very bad. i have my final dress fitting tomorrow - i CANNOT gain weight!!!!!!!!!!!

i think i need to go the low-carb route, as terri suggested. maybe get back on kimkins or southbeach for the remainder of this time that i am unfilled........ i am terrified that i am going to screw up. and it amazes me that i've gone from 217 to 220 in less than a week......... ICK!

[Shellster]

Keep at it Jess! It is scary as hell...is it not? My scale has been all over the place too....even if you have your mind right - it is a different ball game. I'll call you later....

You can do it! Try the low carb...or volumetrics!

[Txblue_eyedqt]

Keep your spirits high Jess, I know you can do this.

BIG HUG for you!

[sharont81]

I hope that everything works out. Celebrate your weight loss and your upcoming wedding. SMILE and hang in there!!!

[chrispygal]

Jess you are so close to that wedding girl - YOU CAN DO IT!!! I know we don't want to "diet" anymore, but you've just got to do it for a few weeks with the best motivation on the planet! But no matter what happens don't beat yourself up!!! You are going to be a beautiful, stunning bride no matter what happens in the next 3 weeks!!!!

[bgrand]

Jess whatever you do....do not stress over all this. Stress alone is proven to make us eat more and gain weight.
Concentrate on good thoughts only and you'll see a big difference.
And please do not beat yourself up over all of this. You have alot on your plate right now.
Think of positive reinforcement only and make all bad thoughts go far, far away. Bad thoughts are not allowed right now...at all!!
We are all pulling for you and it is impossible to gain all your weight back in 3 weeks,,,so don't even think it.

I remembered something that has helped me...."Don't own what you don't want."
You know mind over matter. If you stress over gaining weight, you will!! If you own that you will not, then you won't!!

I'm pulling for you girl. YOU ROCK!!!

[Jachut]

Hang in there Jess, I think an official "diet" is a very good idea. Diets do work short term, just not long term. For this kind of situation, a diet is perfect. You can do it.

And Chrispy is right anyway, nothing will be able erase the glow you have these days. You're looking absolutely gorgeous and 5 or 10lb (if they do happen) is not going to change that, not at all.

[Oral Janitor]

Jessica--I'm really sorry to hear about the problems that you're having:Cry:. I know that you must be really disappointed and stressed out about all this and about trying to plan a wedding too. Just remember that we're all here for you--to give you support and encouragement.:crowd: Hang in there and we'll all pray that it will correct itself and you can get started back on your fills in 2 weeks.

[shubedo]

Hey, Jess...
I am so sorry this has happened right before your wedding. I was unfilled yesterday as well and I am reeling. I know how devistating that news can be and I just want to hug you! You can do this! It's gonna be a bioch at times but you can do it! Don't forget to be good to yourself during this time!

Cindy

["Just Jess"]

cindy - i feel for you! thanks for the support. why the unfill for you???

[shubedo]

cindy - i feel for you! thanks for the support. why the unfill for you???

See dialation...cha cha cha.

P'Nut started a great thread about portion size and dialation/band trouble...come check it out!

Cindy

["Just Jess"]

official weigh in over the weekend - 220.2........... :sad: i was rying my damdest to stay in the 2-teens.

i am doing the best i can. this really really really sucks. i am miserable bc i'm hungry. yet i am gaining?! i just hate this.

[MamaMichelle]

It will be ok Jess, I put on 5lbs from the date of my last dress fitting to my wedding date and the dress still fit, don't worry about the number on the scale and don't let the scale determine how you are going to feel during this important time of your life!!

[gonetogoa]

Jess, all the way from Goa, India, I am praying for you. I had my third fill 6 days back, and for once I am feeling restricted. FYI, since my surgery at 246lbs., dealing w/ achalasia cardiae, being able to eat almost anything (including lots of chocolate and Coca-Cola), I am 149lbs. at present. I was wondering abt dilation in the past 6 days (nothing was staying down, and my achalasia was in full swing, plus I was retching after every meal to boot), but I can keep stuff down today without any achalasia symptoms, and NO Vomitting, so I think I am just being paranoid, and finally the band is working for me like it's meant too. You have inspired me SOOO! Much! U are a gem, and when you travel abroad, I will always host you...love, Lisa

["Just Jess"]

michelle - thanks so much for your words. it's not that the scale is determining how i feel... it's just adding to the stress i ALREADY feel, you know? it's just the worst possible time for this to be happening - that's all.

lisa - thanks so much for your note! i appreciate your prayers... thank you! i am also happy to hear your band is working for you the way it should. i have another appt. with doc - and another UGI scheduled for this thursday... so we'll see........ i pray everything went down and i can get a fill. PLEASE PLEASE! i'll keep everyone updated.

[Neal R.]

Jess, I look at it as good timing. I know you want to be good and not gain, but you want to enjoy your wedding too. Just think of this a little band vacation for your honeymoon. Don't go crazy, but enjoy yourself and don't stress. :) Hang in there.

["Just Jess"]

oh no, i could not give myself that permission -- neal. i am sure the evil fat twin inside me would come out and eat me alive - possibly, quite literally........

but thanks for your sweet words. i hope in my heart of hearts that i'm able to not worry about it on our wedding day.

[Shellster]

I'm so glad you are getting your follow-up test so quick! (Lucky duck!) Keep us posted and I'm praying that everything is all straightened out. You can do it!

[bgrand]

Jess, I know how you feel as far as the hunger part. I have been eating crap even though I know better. We will get through this...it is only temporary!!!

[chrispygal]

Oh Jess, I am sure this is just adding to the stress your feeling from your upcoming wedding. Just try and focus on those happy thoughts. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you for your follow up appt!

["Just Jess"]

thanks shell, betty, and chris --- it's been a rocky road ----------------- but omg, thursday is only 2 days away now. it can't get here fast enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ate2much]

I've been reading and praying for you Jess.
In the meantime - hit that treadmill - hard - and at the highest incline you can take - back off - then hit the incline again.
Our middle daughter got married last summer - so I feel for ya honey! I can't imagine it with band troubles to boot.
Deep breath, sigh... deep breath, sigh...!!

[redgrldj]

I know some of you said you were looking towards a low carb menu while your bands are unfilled.. I lost my first 100 pounds doing low carb, and I have a friend who maintains her health doing low carb.. So if anyone needs recipes or anything let me know and I will post some.. My girl friend hosts a low carb recipe chat on Thursday nights and has converted almost any recipe you can think of to low carb..

["Just Jess"]

pattie - i'm always adding recipes to my box - please feel free to share any you feel are especially great!

[redgrldj]

pattie - i'm always adding recipes to my box - please feel free to share any you feel are especially great!


I have a ton.. so if anyone wants to tell me certain types of recipes they want..

[kristina]

jess your doing good sweetie! i am so proud of you!!! this will all be a distant memory soon.

["Just Jess"]

god, i hope so!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Italiangirl33]

jess..how r u feeling...any new news...i hope u r doing better...did the dr say why this happened to u and how oftn this occurs..what is the name f ur band by the way

["Just Jess"]

italian girl - thanks for your support... if you can go back to the first post and it answers your question..





i had my check-up today and 2nd UGI at the hospital. my stomach looks good. the dilation has gone down completely. and funny enough, the radiologist asked me if i work in a particularlly stressful job. and i said "no, not currently - i'm only teaching summer school at the moment... teaching can be stressful during the school year, but during the summer it's pretty tame." he said that it looked like my stomach muscles were constricted???? he said that is most often caused by stess. SOOOOOOOOOO, i devuldged that i am getting married in 2 weeks and the whole room went "ooooooooooooooooh" hahaha

so, in conclusion. my band was too tight - that was the reason for the dilation. he said if it was from overeating he would have been able to tell bc he's seen it before and the pouch would not have snapped right back into it's normal shape so quickly. he also said that that doesn't mean i was filled too much. he said it could be bc i was filled just right and then the added stress of planning my wedding made it "too" tight.

go figure.

so, he didnt' fill me today - he said to call him when i get back from my honeymoon. he said just to continue to do my best with making good band food choices and drinking tons of water and of course, exercising --- but to not worry about anything until sept. when i can get into see him.

and you know what? now that i know i'm okay. i actually FEEL like i AM okay. and i can honestly say i haven't felt that way in about 2 weeks. this has REALLY added to the stress i already felt and i just wasn't myself and everyone around me noticed it.

thanks to everyone for your support and let's all pray that the 4lbs. i've gained since being unfilled is as much as i will put on.....................

[HeatherGurl]

That is GREAT news girl!!! I am so happy for you and quit that worrying about 4 lbs!
Seriously, you need to get Vinny to hide the scale. Just focus on being good and quit stressing! Enjoy your wedding girl! :)
I am SO happy that your tummy and band are all good!

["Just" Paul]

OK!!!!

You are gonna be OK!!!


Amazing. I tell my wife all the time how stress affects the band, and I don't think she believes me completely...

You are living proof.

Relax, the big stuff is done. Now all you have to do is pick the damn beer, and say "I do".

["Just Jess"]

Now all you have to do is pick the damn beer, and say "I do".

:hahalaff: you're so right!!!

[bgrand]

Jess this is wonderful news!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[chrispygal]

Jess I posted on your other thread. :) But yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ate2much]

Fantastic news!

[redgrldj]

Jess that is great news... I just want you to know that I think you are going to be a beautiful bride and that you have made outstanding progress.. Went back through a bunch of your posts all over the board the other night and was just blown away by all the changes you have made.. This is just a little bump in the road after all you have been through...

[DebbieChoos]

Jess this is great news!!! Just keep your focus and you'll do fine. We're all rooting for you!!

[Nick N Ava's Grammy]

I'm so happy for you Jess.. this is great news :)

P.S. Thank you for the Thank you :)

[shubedo]

I am SO doing the happy dance for you!!! Hooo RAY!

Cindy

["Just Jess"]

thanks, girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


P.S. Thank you for the Thank you
and you're welcome!! :)


I am SO doing the happy dance for you!!! Hooo RAY! Cindy
can you happy dance off 4 lbs. for me????

[Neal R.]

Great news Jess. I was just wondering how you were, so I come here and you already answered. Glad to hear, I can "hear" the relief in your posts.

["Just Jess"]

you all know me soooooo well!!! :)

[little t]

Jess, have you seen "Rock the Reception"? It is a TV show where the couple surprises their guests by doing a rockin first dance. You ought to think about it!

[stac1982]

Way to go Tami. . .and a little more stress to her! (ha j/k I saw a part of that show and it is cute)

[little t]

Oh no! No more stress! Just for fun! If this will add one ounce of stress to your life, then rock back and forth and spin in circles for your first dance!

["Just Jess"]

Jess, have you seen "Rock the Reception"? It is a TV show where the couple surprises their guests by doing a rockin first dance. You ought to think about it!

omg - LOVE that show!!!!!!!! and vin and i actually applied to be on it back before this new season started - we have not been contacted, so i presume that means we weren't selected. i think this time around we're just going to be boring!!! that couple that is all over youtube totally stole our idea (and thunder) with the "baby got back" wedding dance last year anyway.............

[kristina]

hoooray jess! great news girl!

[ladytonya]

We cracked up our attendees near the end of our reception. We did all the traditional first dance stuff but later on, we danced to Cartman singing Come Sail Away. We danced while all our friends stood around us blowing bubbles at us. It was hilarious!

We were really bad, though, because we were huge South Park fans. Hey, it was 2000! Anyway, we played Chocolate Salty Balls and my mom was so pissed! We were all just laughing our butts off at the reaction of some of the older attendees that were still there. At least I waited until my mom's boss left. She would have really killed me if he would have still been there!

[Dustbunny]

Jess glad it's working out! Now can we see the dress? DB

[JDru]

Just seeing your good news today Jess. I'm so glad your dilated pouch has resolved. Now let's just get you through the wedding! :)

[Nick N Ava's Grammy]

Just wanted ya to know I'm thinking about ya Jess.. :) Hope things are going well for ya!!

["Just Jess"]

i appreciate everyone's thoughts!! thank you - and keep sending them my way!

this week has been ABSOLUTELY crazy. i cannot believe regardless of how organized i had been - how overwhelming all these last minute things are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and my weight?? well - i'm up to 222.4 as of this morning - which is a little under a 5lb. gain - which sucks --- but to be completely honest, i'm not letting it bother me. i have too many other things taking priority right now. and i guess i'm going with the idea that some of you had suggested and considering this a nice little "band break" and although i try my best to live each day as banded - i have made some eating decisions that i would not have otherwise - ie: bread and olive oil last night - OMG, i forgot how heavily that was............ and like i shared on my personal journey thread - i had a beer the night of my bachelorette party - which was also a treat.

it's hard being so hungry. and it's hard to explain just how difficult dealing with THAT is. buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut - after the honeymoon - i'm making an appt. for a fill and i'm back on the wagon! PROMISE!

and let me make this official: my christmas goal: ONDERLAND!!!!!!!!!!

[little t]

Only 8 days JESS! WOO HOO!

[redgrldj]

Jess make sure you take a little time for yourself this week.. Don't over stress every detail...

[Shellster]

Hey Jess...just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. Don't let the few pounds bug you. This is going to be the happiest event of your life! (aside from meeting the NC bandsters...your first born...etc.) I can't believe it is sooooooo close! Good luck with the last minute details!

[lil'bitty]

Squirting going on here sister! I have been a little disconnected since I have been so busy and you of all people know that it never ends!! BUT with that said, I take a minute to drop in on b2g and check on you and you are doing great and thinking positive!! I love ya girl!! You are such an inspiration to me!

Abram is so excited BTW!!! I am packing tissues!!

[kristina]

your date is almost here..and nothing and i mean nothing else matters until your honeymoon is over!
enjoy this time girl..u will never forget it or regret it!

[chrispygal]

Just a little over one week girlie! I can't wait for pics!!! You are going to be a knockout!!!

[newlifeat57]

Jess, Time sure has gone quickly. It just seems like yesterday that I bagan my journey and discovered this site and also discovered the bunch of knowledgeable people that have become my inspiration--you being one of them. If I were your momma I would be so proud of you and all you have accomplished. You Rock!!

I can't wait to see all the wonderful pictures of your big day--ooh--ooh--and your honeymoon too, please. It is amazing that in ONE--I repeat ONE--week you will begin a new chapter in your book as a MRS.

Please, take time for yourself--just as others have suggested-- you don't want to be run down when your big day comes.

Sending up prayers....

[ate2much]

I'm not sure which I'm more excited to see - your dress or the pics of Bora Bora...!! LOL
I'm sooo excited for you, Jess!

[JDru]

Wahoo!!!! Only 5 more days my friend. I am SO, SO excited for you and I can't wait to see that dress. :)

[WildAlaskaG'ma]

Jess: So happy about the great band/pouch news. YIPPEE !!! No one deserves great news like that more than you. Can hardly wait for wedding pictures. You're gonna be such a beautiful bride ,,, (Sittin here ticking down the days ,,,)

[GirlyGirl]

Great news Jess! You are okay so we are okay!

Everyone in bandland sits on the edge of their seats whenever anyone happens upon a band challenge... glad you are okay and can concentrate on your wedding day! I've had a few of those and they are always fun to plan! My current husband knows I love event planning and any time I am planning something new he always asks me with a laugh if I'm planning my next wedding. He's a bit of a smart *ss!

smiles!!

[MoOrLess]

Jess - waved on another of your threads - but wanted to come and say HUGS and great for you - focusing on your weight while doing all those last minute finishing touches for your wedding -- OMG YOUR WEDDING -- in 6 more days!!!!!!!!!!! I can't wait to see pictures of you in your beautiful wedding gown! Yep pics of Vinny too - but mostly YOU! lol

[kristina]

http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r232/Hervixieness/mz_07_10011174181.gif almost here!!!

[lil'bitty]

Left Jess a message this morning, can't get her off my mind this week! Can any of your believe that we are just a few days away from our girls wedding??? Seems like just yesterday that she told us that Vin proposed!! WOW time flies!

[WildAlaskaG'ma]

Tick, tick, tick ,,,

[HeatherGurl]

I honestly can't believe that B2G Addict has not been on since Thursday??? :) I am surprised at her abandoning us for her wedding!

I really hope she is enjoying the heck out of this week and gets back to us soon with TONS of pictures!! :)

[Italiangirl33]

Glad is all ok...Hope ur wedding goes well as I am sure it will..Cant wait to see the pictures..and we all know who loves to take pictures..ha ha ha

[little t]

Jess! Two more days! Yowzers! I am sure you will not be reading this until you are back from honeymoon! I hope you had a great time!

[MoOrLess]

I'd agree with Tami - imagine you won't be on here lol - congratulations MRS. -- hope everything worked out just as you planned (and then some) and you had a fantastic wedding and honeymoon! how could you not...in Bora Bora - can't wait to see pictures!

[kristina]

Congrads Girl. i have anticipated your wedding like i did my own! i absolutely cannot wait to see the pictures, and i am so proud of how far you've come!

[WildAlaskaG'ma]

Just picturing you in your own little whirlwind of activity ,,, luv & huggs, Jess

[ladytonya]

OMG, your wedding is tomorrow! I can't believe it! We all can't wait to see pics of the mysterious dress.

Good luck and much congratulations!

[JDru]

We'll all be thinking about you tomorrow Jess!! I can't wait to see the pictures. I just know you're going to be a beautiful bride! :)

[gonetogoa]

less than 2 hours here in India, and surprise, surprise...it's already Jess and Vinny's day!!!!! Congrats! and I hope u fall in love w/ Bora Bora...try a water bungalow w/ a volcano view if u get the chance!!!!! Love, Lisa

[newlifeat57]

OMG it is now 08/08/08. That means it is about 3:20 am ET. Which means you are probably sleeping soundly. Have a wonderful day, Jess. hope all goes well with your wedding and honeymoon. Can't wait to see pictures. Sending blessings your way, today on this special day... *big hug*

[JDru]

It's officially 08-08-08!!!!

[chrispygal]

OMG!! The big day is here!!

[MoOrLess]

In just a few short hours our Jess will be a bride - no wait - a wife! lol....congrats Jess and Vinny on your big day today (8-8-08).....

[kristina]

Congrads Jess!! we love you!!!

["Just Jess"]

YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am just seeing this now. thank you for thinking of me here as well!!! :) i feel so loved! :love:

hey, just popped on to let everyone know that i have a fill appt. scheduled for SEPT. 4th!!!!!!!! THAT'S NEXT THURSDAY! WOOO!!!!!!!!! :)

[bgrand]

Way to go Jess!

[kebsa]

that fill appointment is just around the corner now jess and then its back on track!!!!

["Just Jess"]

back on track, i am!

today i had my appt. and he gave me 2 cc's... he said he wants to gradually fill me, so we don't have a repeat dialation. he also said that each fill may feel different than it did before - that's why we can't go directly back to the fill level i was at before immediately. ((booo!))

but i am just happy to have something and PRAY it gives me at least a little restriction!

thanks to all of you for your support through all of this!

[Kim G]

Congrats on the fill! I know you are happy to start getting back on track! (I totally understand!!!!)

["Just Jess"]

thanks, kim - what's going on with you???????????

[Kim G]

thanks, kim - what's going on with you???????????

I was fighting an ulcer and was completely un-filled for over 6 months but was fighting stomach problems for a year. I am finally better, well kind of, and got a fill on Aug 13th!!!! I was so excited to finally start lossing the weight I had gained!!!! So that is why I can relate w/ the un-fill it's tough!

[kristina]

hows your restriction jess?

["Just Jess"]

eh...

today was my first day with solid food and i was surprised i was able to eat what i ate before stopping myself - not having the band tell me to stop (which i kind of need MOST of the time!)

i had a protein shake for breakfast, chili for lunch (full cup), snacked on some salsa and baked chips while watching the game with hubby, and PB & J on a half pita for dinner (NO issues with pita........... that was the test!)

right now i'm sucking on a sugar free pop!

[kristina]

hey girl..u are still eating ALOT less than an unbanded person. trust me. :)
when does ur doc wanna do another fill?

[little t]

Jess, that is great that you got your fill! That time went by so fast and you didn't gain much at all! You are a rockstar!

["Just Jess"]

hey girl..u are still eating ALOT less than an unbanded person. trust me. :) when does ur doc wanna do another fill? ***my next appt. is scheduled for about a month -- oct. 2nd (the day of the NKOTB concert (taking my sis as her matron of honor gift) and 2 days before the NC/DC road trip meeting!) oh well! ;) life of a bandster, right?


I was fighting an ulcer and was completely un-filled for over 6 months but was fighting stomach problems for a year. I am finally better, well kind of, and got a fill on Aug 13th!!!! I was so excited to finally start lossing the weight I had gained!!!! So that is why I can relate w/ the un-fill it's tough! ***i'm so sorry to hear that, kim! glad to hear you're feeling better (even if it's just "kind of"!!) keep at it, girl! we'll be each other's cheerleaders to lose the weight gained during a time of trouble!!!


Jess, that is great that you got your fill! That time went by so fast and you didn't gain much at all! You are a rockstar! ***you're nuts! although my doc said the same thing.. he said he was not at all surprised, nor troubled, about a 10 lb. gain! GO FIGURE! i was totally beating myself up about it.

[chrispygal]

Girl, people have had a 10 pound weight gain without an unfill!!

["Just Jess"]

i know... i know...

but i can't tell you how good it felt to be in the 2-teens!!!!!!!!! heading one my way to wonderful onederland... and then to work my way not only back into the 2-20's... but then to see that horrid 230! i wanted to die! but i went and got a hair cut (8 inches, that's gotta be at least a few ounces!) and then got a little fill.. and it's back on track with eating................

now i just need to find a way to get back to the gym with my crazy schedule this year!!!!!!!!!!! thanks for all your support!!

[kristina]

i know 3 people that recently got married and then whacked all their hair off...i wonder if this is a bridal trend? LOL

["Just" Paul]

My wife did that too!

On the DAY we got back, she had it all whacked off, and dyed it blonde!

[ginabobina]

Glad it's going well with the fill Jess - I know it feels great to be feeling your band a bit.... and it will keep getting better going forward. you've done awesome!! I had a slight unfill after having all those problems with being too tight and he said he wanted to leave it alone for 3 months. I go this Tuesday for a fill .... i've lost a little but mostly seem to be hovering around the same range and I can eat quite a bit on a "good" day. But I still have times when I am super tight - the fluctuation drives me crazy sometimes! But still no regrets here!

[Joy]

OH, this scares me....I have DREADFUL reflux....even on Nexium as well as hiatal hernia.....he is going to "stitch it up a bit" during surgery on the 15th. Good Luck to you...........Hope wedding is lovely!

Joy

["Just Jess"]

i know 3 people that recently got married and then whacked all their hair off...i wonder if this is a bridal trend? LOL
well, most of us grow it out to have a nice full up-do... so you get reeeeeeeeeeeeeally sick of blow drying for 20 minutes, etc. with ALL THAT HAIR! i just wanted less to deal with!!!!


My wife did that too! On the DAY we got back, she had it all whacked off, and dyed it blonde! heather wears short hair SO well! i could never cut it THAT short! i wish!!!!!!!! it would be a BREEZE to take care of!


the fluctuation drives me crazy sometimes! But still no regrets here! i concur!!!!!!!!!!


Good Luck to you...........Hope wedding is lovely!Joyit was FABULOUS! thanks for asking!!!!!!!!!!

[kristina]

well i have seen pics...and its absolutely beautiful!!!

["Just Jess"]

;) thanks, girl!!!!!!!!!! :)

ps: love that little jogging icon at the bottom --- TOO cute!