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Kim G
09-08-2006, 11:35 AM
Welcome to the NC area...we love meeting people and would love to know more about you...so lets here it. :) (Plus we are forgetful and I don't want to forget anyone.)
BondGirl
09-09-2006, 12:17 AM
Ok Ok Ok, I will go first. ;) Hi my name is Angie, I am recently seperated from my husband and I have three beautiful little girls. I was banded on the 30th of June 2005 and I have lost 50 pounds to date. I have had 2 fills and havent lost a pound on either one? Go figure, Im not eating right? I need to get my butt in gear and get this weight off. I have a guy interested but I am still self conscious about my body and want to feel good about myself with that. Hopefully you all understand what I am trying to say here. lol Well thats me in a nut shell.
Angie
diva girl
09-09-2006, 03:35 PM
Ok Ok Ok, I will go first. ;) . I have had 2 fills and havent lost a pound on either one? Go figure, Im not eating right?
Angie
Hi Angie and all North Carolinians out there.
I'm from Waynesville, just west of Asheville. I was banded 8/16/06 and have had no fills. I'm still on liquids and start mushies this week.
But Angie....You lost 50 pounds but none since your fills? How frustrating. What kind of band do you have?
Kathy
09-09-2006, 08:06 PM
Hey all! I'm Kathy in Charlotte. I was banded April 8, 2005 by Dr Kuri in TJ, MX. I have lost just shy of 50 band pounds so far, almost 70 from my high weight. I'm a slow loser, but I love my band! We have a great group here, so welcome everyone!!!
Lovemylpband
09-09-2006, 08:29 PM
Hi I'm Dianne from Charlotte. I am coming up to my 1 yr anniversary on September 26th I'll be on a cruise ship to celebrate. I won't be eating much just having fun!
wavydaby
09-10-2006, 06:34 PM
Greetings, Im Jill from CLT. Im married with one heck of a daughter who just started pre-k(sniff.. rides on the big kid bus to school) and an awesome hubby.
I just started my journey, I was banded on 8-15, but down over 20lbs. My scale is stupid and is not consistent. I know I am somewhere in the 270's today, but just not sure where.
I joined the Huntersville Aquatic Center, so let me know if there is anyone else out there who goes and we can meet up!!
Kim G
09-10-2006, 07:14 PM
Hello I am Kim. Live in Concord and was banded June 13th 2005. Have lost just over 90 pounds and still loosing. YEAH!!! This is the best thing I have done for ME. Have a great DH and a handful of a 3 year old boy. Toying with the idea of another...not sure yet.
I LOVE MY BAND and no one will tell me otherwise. hehe
Welcome everyone!!!!
Mrs Sabre
09-11-2006, 05:38 AM
Hi, my name is Karen. I live in Belmont, NC. I was banded on 6/5/06 and have lost 43 pounds so far. I too love my band!
I'm wife to John, mother to Alyssa (22) and MIL to BJ (26). Grandbabies are still 2-3 years away.
I work for the retirement finance area of a big bank. I love the Lord, my God and Savior. I ride a Honda Shadow Sabre. I have 2 tattoos, a naval piercing, and 10 earrings. I guess you could say I'm a bit eclectic? LOL!
BondGirl
09-13-2006, 02:47 PM
I am not sure what type of band I have? I guess I need to ask Dr. B next time I see him. lol I know it is frustrating but I am happy with the 50 that is gone but want to lose more. Thanks for asking I will check on that. :)
Angie
lind2times
09-27-2006, 12:13 PM
My name is Linda, I live in Gastonia. I hope to be banded soon. My packet should be ready to go to the insurance company.....come on Kim....push it through.
I had gastric bypass in 2002 and am having the lap band as a form of revission.
I am learning alot from reading various threads...I am so glad this site is here.
Mrs Sabre
09-27-2006, 01:00 PM
Welcome Linda! I live in Belmont myself.
A bunch of us in this area and some beyond get together for lunch once a month. Keep an eye out for dates and time. The next is October 14th, 11:30 a.m. I believe it's at Ruby Tuesday's on Arrowood Rd., right off of I-77. You'll need to confirm the location. I won't be at this one, but plenty of folks will.
Kim G
09-27-2006, 05:09 PM
Hello Linda...I am so glad you found us. Post on any thread at anytime. We will find you. Or just look around and follow us. You know where to find me.:happy:
Hondagal
10-28-2006, 01:43 PM
Hi my name is Robin, I live in Charlotte. I was banded 9/27 so far I love it down 22lbs. Im married, have a son 15 and step-daughter 13 lives with me, also have 2 children grown and married both live in Florida, 1 wild grandson. I scuba dive and ride a Honda motorcycle love extreme sports....and as soon as I can get down to the weight restrictions is off to Chester SC for skydiving WHoo Hoo!
cathy
01-04-2007, 06:28 PM
Hi - I did a brief intro in the main forum - but thought I should say "howdy" and introduce myself here as well!
I am one of those rare natives - born and raised in NC! My husband is a native too, which is very odd here in Cary. For those of you not familiar with Cary, it is the C-ontainmnent A-rea for R-elocated Y-ankees, right outside of Raleigh!
I just had to ask my hubby how long we had been married! (I'm not good with dates!). We have been married 8 1/2 years. Tomorrow marks the 4 year anniversary of my 2 stepdaughters living with us full-time, exclusively. They are now 15 and 17 and are turning out to be beautiful young ladies. I am truly proud to call them 'my daughters'.
At this point, I have done all the prelim stuff - and as soon as the results from my endoscopy (done yesterday) are received, the dr's office should be submitting packet to insurance company for approval! They WILL approve! They BETTER approve!
My goal is to lose 140 lbs - the amount I have put on since I quit smoking 10 years ago. Can't wait to get started!!!!
diva girl
01-04-2007, 06:56 PM
Hi Cathy,
I think we have a few relocated yankee over here in the mountains, too! I'm one of them. Welcome to the world of banding. Good luck with your insurance. This will be a happy journey for you!
ladytonya
01-04-2007, 09:49 PM
Welcome, Cathy! You must be the only NC native in Cary. I never knew there was such a thing!
I am actually a NC native here in Asheville. We are a rare breed, indeed. I married out of my species. He's a a Connecticut Yankee!
Mrs Sabre
01-05-2007, 06:20 AM
Welcome Cathy! Want to make a long drive to join us for lunch tomorrow? Thoughts and prayers go with you; I hope your insurance comes through without giving it a second thought!
jttaurus
01-06-2007, 07:52 AM
Oh Cathy,
I'm packing up tomorrow to move to Cary. I am a mislocated Yankee. New Yorker for life. I am in a city called Gastonia and there aren't many yankee's in the redheckghetto where I live. I run into Yankee's all the time in Charlotte, but nothing in gastonia.
Funny thing about Gastonia, it's like six degree's of seperation. I met my current closest friend here in gastonia. Guess where she's from, come on.
She and my husband went to high school together and never knew each other until we moved to Gastonia. She was my daughter's daycare teacher that's how we became friends. My daughter's first baby teacher was from BOSton, with the accent all the way.
My daughter is a southern belle, born in Charlotte, being raised in the redneck ghetto! I love the south you cannot beat the weather.
Jen
sheshekerr
01-11-2007, 08:34 PM
Hi, I am Sheila. I live in Apex, which is a burb of Raleigh. I was just recently banded on 04 Jan 2007. I am one week out, and really not sure if I like it yet... LOL. Maybe after all of the swelling and gas leave my body.. I will change my mind!
Mrs Sabre
01-12-2007, 06:22 AM
Welcome aboard Sheila! Hang in there; it does get better! There is a bunch of us around Charlotte that meet once a month for lunch. If you don't mind the drive, we'd love for you to join us. Our next meeting is on Feb. 3rd, 11:30 a.m. at Red Robin on Harris Blvd., just about 3 blocks off of I-85 in Charlotte.
vahoneybee
01-13-2007, 10:56 AM
Hi there! I posted in the welcome forum but here I am! I'm Melissa, 35 y.o. single mom of 2 kids (boy age 6 and girl age 9). I live in Charlotte and was banded 1/4/07 by Dr. Keith Gersin at CMC Mercy. I work for Carolinas Healthcare at a busy pediatric practice full time and I love my job!
My soon to be ex a&& left me last year for an older, richer, heavier version...but now that I'm getting this new body in shape; and feel better than I ever have, I'm actually really happy!
I also am very active in my church, as well as a Girl Scout Leader.
Glad to be one of the "biggest losers!"
Kim G
01-13-2007, 11:09 AM
Welcome Melissa we are glad to have you here. :)
Kathy
01-13-2007, 11:15 AM
Hey Melissa! :wave: Dr Gersin is new to me...it's good to know there's another doc in the area. Has your experience been a good one?
Sorry about your Ex...that stinks, but I'm glad you are happy! Good for you! Welcome, and I hope to meet you in person at our next lunch get-together. We have fun!
Mom2JE2
01-22-2007, 11:17 AM
Hello,
I think some of you may know me, but just in case, my name is Denika Menis.I was banded on July 26th, 2005. I did great initially, but have been losing really slowly for some time now. It's all my fault though! I've been making bad choices and not exercising, so I can't blame it on my band at all. It does it's job, I just don't always do mine!
I live in Hiddenite, which is close to Taylorsville and Hickory, with my husband Jimmy and my son Jamie. http://www.cleftadvocate.org/ff0404Jamie.html
He is going to be 5 on January 31st! I can't believe that! (I also will be having a birthday on the 30th, but let's not talk about that.) God has truly blessed me more than I could ever ask for or deserve with our son and everything else in our lives, including leading me to find out about the Lapband. So, I try to not let a chance go by without thanking him and telling people about how wonderful he is.:D
I am so thankful that we North Carolina bandsters have this wonderful place to get support, advice, and friendships! I hope I can help someone here sometime too!
Denika Menis
Kathy
01-22-2007, 11:18 AM
Hey Denika! Good to see you here! :wave:
Mom2JE2
01-22-2007, 11:21 AM
Hey! Thank you, it's great to be here. I've been reading on here for awhile, but I'm just now posting. CONGRATULATIONS on being a quitter, by the way!!
Mrs Sabre
01-22-2007, 11:44 AM
Welcome Denika! Good to see you!
Mom2JE2
01-22-2007, 11:59 AM
Thank you Karen!
Kim G
01-22-2007, 04:45 PM
Denika - I am so glad to finally see you here. We have missed you!!!! Please try to join us for a lunch soon!!!!!
Mom2JE2
01-22-2007, 07:03 PM
Thank you Kim! I will try to make one of the lunches, I promise!
Denika
tameria
01-24-2007, 08:42 AM
Hello everyone, My name is Tameria J. I live in Monroe N.C. I am waiting on S.E.Bariatrics to reschedule my surgery. I would have been having surgery tomorrow, but we had to put it off. Something about finalizing papers between HealthSouth @ S.E.Bariatrics. Oh well, the wait continues. It's nice to meet everyone! Have a blessed day!
wavydaby
01-24-2007, 08:51 AM
Nice to meet ya! Please see if you can come to one of our lunch meetings!!
Mrs Sabre
01-24-2007, 10:53 AM
Welcome! I ditto what Wavy said, please join us for lunch if you can! :)
doglover
01-24-2007, 11:07 AM
Hi Everybody,
My name is Cathy I live in Charlotte and I was banded on Jan 25, 2006. I have lost 1 husband and 65 pounds. I'm glad to be rid of both. I hope to join you for the lunch at Red Robin on Feb 7, but it will depend on my work schedule. It sounds like there are alot of people from NC on this site.
I love this site.
ladytonya
01-24-2007, 11:26 AM
Hi, Cathy! Welcome! Congrats on the banding, sounds like you're doing great! I'm in Asheville so I don't get to the lunch meetings, but I did go to December's after my surgery. Some day I will get back down for another. This is a bunch of great ladies and the lunches are a blast! Again, Welcome!
Kim G
01-24-2007, 03:19 PM
What another Cathy...Yikes it's getting to be like the name Dianne. :) haha
Welcome both Cathy and Tameria. I know Tameria...she is very nice. Hope ya'll all get a chance to meet her. Tameria...found out it's a go so you should be getting a call soon. We are very excited!!!!!
Cathy that is funny about the hubby and the weight loss...You fight the typical funny Cathy. Hope you are doing well and our lunch is actually the 33rd. We only ever meet on Saturdays. We hope you can make it...we have a great time.
Welcome to the board!!!!!
JudyBellyBand
01-24-2007, 06:18 PM
So many new folks - - - Welcome everyone. It's going to be a pleasure to meet you here and hopfully I'll be able to see you on the 3rd down in Charlotte. So tell us more Cathy and Tameria about your weight-loss, band-size/fill, and where you were banded.
Oh Tameria, I just read Kim's message about a call on a date. Congradulations!!!! We'll be here for you. WAiting now is the worst and best of times. You are going to be wonderful.
vahoneybee
01-24-2007, 06:34 PM
Welcome all newbies!!!!!!
Mrs Sabre
01-25-2007, 05:36 AM
Welcome aboard Cathy! :D
Welcome to Tameira and Cathy! Can't wait to meet you at lunch. The comment about losing 65 pounds and a husband made me laugh out loud in front of the computer.
There's plenty more fish in the sea!
Have a great day, everyone!!
Shellster
01-25-2007, 10:38 AM
Lots of new NC'ers.....welcome!
:wave: Hope to see everyone at the next lunch in Feb. We're all chatting on the chat board Friday night at 9:30 or so....drop in if you can! (Check the NC Chatterbox thread for details....)
doglover
01-25-2007, 11:38 AM
Thanks everyone.
I feel really lucky to have found this website. I was banded on 01/25/06 ( 1 year ago today). To date I have lost 65 pounds and I know that if I had watched what I ate and did more exercise it could have been more. Dr Bauman (Mac yummy) did my surgery. I have had 2 fills, but plan to go in Monday for a third. I hope to meet everyone at the luncheon. I will try to sign on friday night, but I must warn you, I haven't ever be in a chatroom before. ( Are these the kind of things, my mother used to warn me about?)
Anyway, thanks for all the warm welcomes. You guys really are the best!
ginabobina
01-25-2007, 06:20 PM
I posted this in a thread of mine but wanted to post it here as an introduction. I'm hoping for some kind of award for the most smileys ever used. :wof: What is this one? Double vision?
My name is Gina and I live in Charlotte, NC. I'm looking into the surgery with either Dr. Voellinger or Dr Bauman. I don't think insurance will pay but I'm going to try an appeal if it doesn't go through. If it doesn't, I'll just sell a kidney. :scared: I'm also thinking I might be able to get some of the pre-testing covered through my primary doc - he's awesome and I'm sure will help in whatever way he can.
I'm married to my highschool sweetheart - it took us 11 years to get married but we went to our senior prom together and started dating at 17 :kiss: Our 6th anniversary is this April and I will be turning 35 :eek: in March. 35 wouldn't be so bad if I didn't feel like every commercial or article is about how much less likely you are to have a healthy baby after 35... no babies yet and we want a family so much. Part of my decision to get the LapBand is based on it helping me lose enough weight to safely have a baby or to be better able to keep up with one whether we adopy or have our own. I love kids. (Not the ones that point and laugh or stare with their little mouths hanging open... the OTHER kids:biggrin1: )
I'm not even sure how much I weigh anymore but I know I passed 400 a few months ago and pretty well panicked - aaaa! I wasn't overweight growing up - was never a size 2 but I was a healthy weight and wore and size 10 went I left for college. Let's just say the freshman 15 kicked off one heck of a snowball effect I have yet to stop or reverse by more than 40-50 pounds at a time and never permanently. After gaining weight for 10 years and insisting that something was NOT RIGHT with my bod, I was finally diagnosed with PCOS - Aha! But basically, the more you gain, the harder it is to get it off and keep it off. That's part of why I have finally realized that my most realistic shot at longterm sustained weight loss is with the LapBand.
And now, because these smileys are so funny I can't stop laughing, I wil tell you some things I am looking forward to...
* Not doing this every time I get on the scales:faint:* Being able to jump for joy :high5: * Not running from cameras :photo: *Dancing!!:dance:*Not hiding from children I don't know for fear of them informing me..."You;re BIG!!" :behindsofa: * Maybe being a Mom some day :preggers:* Not having the constant urge to BOLT when people start talking about "dieting" :bolt: * Being able to sit in arm chairs and booths :couch2: * Taking a bubble bath that I fill to cover me and getting out to find more than 3 inches of water in the tub - ha ha!! :bathbaby: *Making b2g friends :typing:
And the only things I'm nervous about are... * Losing food as a friend:pop2: and what about those PBs?! :puke:
Hope you all don't think I have lost my mind with these smiley :crazy: but I just had to get it out of my system. :)
http://band2gether.net/images/misc/progress.gif
Kim G
01-25-2007, 06:36 PM
Gina you are too funny...I love your post. I think you will achieve all your goals you set....Hang in there and Good Luck. I personally think you can't go wrong w/ whatever doc you choose. The doc adds the tool but us here that make these tools work and keep them working. Welcome!!!!!
Mom2JE2
01-25-2007, 08:42 PM
Gina,
You are a hoot! I also love your smilies!! I have PCOS too. Isn't it just so much fun?! The only good thing about finding out I had it was that all of the weird things that I had going on with my body finally made sense.
You sound like a great person, I know that with your attitude, sense of humor, and spirit, you will succeed with your weight loss and will make a GREAT Mommy someday!
Shellster
01-25-2007, 08:54 PM
Gina, girl! You are too funny...that first smiley is the lottery smilie and I wish I had bought a ticket before Wednesday night's drawing! If I'd have won...it would be "Lapbands for everybody!"
:humble:
You're gonna fit right in here....welcome!
Kathy
01-26-2007, 06:48 AM
Newbie recap:
sheshekerr-Sheila-Apex
Cathy-Cary
ginabobina-Charlotte
doglover-Cathy-Charlotte
tameria-Monroe
vahoneybee-Melissa-Charlotte
Dang folks, please please please be patient with me as I get to know you. I'm on newbie overwhelm, there are so many of us! 3 K/Cathy's! And 3 Dianne's! and 2 Melissa's! and, and...:eek:
I'm okay. Hi to everybody! :wave: and please SPEAK UP if you aren't being spoken to. You gotta yell loud in a big crowd, so don't be shy, okay?! :)
wavydaby
01-26-2007, 12:16 PM
Umm... welcome everyone and thanks for the recap Kathy.
I cant keep anything straight while im on liquid tylenol cold.
weeeeee... this is fun
cathy
01-26-2007, 03:00 PM
Another Cathy (and she even spells it correctly :) )
Welcome from one newbie to another. I'm hoping to be banded - - just was turned down by insurance, but am hopeful that resubmission will be successful!
Doglover? Let's see - - how many ya got? I have 4 myself - - 2 pugs (one black, one fawn), an American cocker spaniel, and a GermanShepard/Chow mutt! Oh - and 2 cats!
Kathy
01-26-2007, 09:11 PM
Another Cathy (and she even spells it correctly :) )
I read that! :blabla:
Lovemylpband
01-26-2007, 09:56 PM
wELCOME EVERYONE. WE HAVE LOTS OF FUN HERE!! HOPE TO SEE YOU FOR LUNCH ON THE 33RD..LOL Good one Kim..
doglover
01-27-2007, 07:27 AM
Hi other Cathy,
I have 5 dogs total. 4 chihuahuas (hoping to start raising them, if my females will work with me on this adventure.) and 1 french bulldog that I've had for 10 years.( I thought that he was just a fat boston terrier, but he looks more like a french bulldog) They are like furry children, and are all spoiled rotten. I just love pugs too. If I didn't have chihuahuas I would have pugs.
wavydaby
01-27-2007, 10:56 AM
Dang Judy took good notes ;)
doglover
01-27-2007, 11:36 AM
Dang,
That's a big family, from N.C. I'm glad to be a part of it.
godloveshope2
01-28-2007, 09:42 AM
Hi
My name is Hope. I am hoping to have the Lap Band. I will be going to a Lap Band Seminar with Dr. Voellinger on 1/29/2006. I do have a scheduled consultation with Dr. V in February. I have had all of my pre op stuff done with my pcp except psyc, nutri, and exercise eval. My insurance co is with UHC Choice. My plan does pay for morbid obese persons. YEA!!. So I hope to have my surgery by the end of June 2007.
I have read the post here all of you guys a great. I will be coming to the support group meeting at Red Robin next month in Charlotte.
Have a good day.
Mrs Sabre
01-28-2007, 12:03 PM
Welcome Hope! Can't wait to meet you in person next week! :)
CarolinaGirl
01-28-2007, 07:32 PM
Hey All, I am new to this site and figured I would introduce myself.. I am Rachael and live in Clayton (just outside Raleigh). I married my highschool sweetheat at 17 years old and we have one son (Corey, 13years "my pride and joy"). I am pre-op and scheduled to be banded on Feb. 28th, by Dr. Paul Enochs. I am looking forward to this new chapter in my life and be on the losing side. Nice to meet you all!
Mrs Sabre
01-29-2007, 05:40 AM
Welcome Rachael! If you don't mind the drive, we'd love to have you join us for lunch on Saturday! You'll be banded before you know it; how exciting!
cathy
01-29-2007, 02:23 PM
Hi Rachael - -
You are close to me - - I'm over in Cary. I'm hoping to be banded soon - - Cigna just has to see the light and approve!. I am seeing Dr Moran, who I think was in practice with Dr Enochs.
Will you be having your surgery at Franklin Regional?
CarolinaGirl
01-29-2007, 04:15 PM
Hey Cathy and Karen:
I will have to pass on lunch this weekend but look forward to attending in the future, make a day of fun and shooping in Charlotte. Cathy, I am having the surgery at Franklin Regional, and your right Dr. Moran and Dr. Enochs were in practice together at one point. I hope you get your approval/date soon, mine is 02/28. I had to wait six weeks after I had my Gallbladder removed. Its gonna be a long month but am using this time to PREPARE (very overwhelmed). Keep me posted!
Rachael
Kim G
01-29-2007, 06:09 PM
Welcome ladies....wow I so excited at everyone that is joining us.
Angela C
01-30-2007, 01:32 PM
Greetings! I am so happy to have found this board! So many other sites just focus on RNY and have such a bias against the band, this forum is so encouraging. I'm 34, live in Apex with my wonderful husband and delightful 5 year old daughter. I'm pursuing the band with Dr. Moran and have completed almost all of my preliminary appointments, only one left to go. I love to travel, read, bead, and anything creative with my daughter. I also love a good lounge on the couch ;-) I look forward to interacting with everyone!
Kim G
01-30-2007, 05:39 PM
The Raleigh - Greensboro area is picking up. Ok here is the deal ya'll can have a meeting once a mont also but you still have to come down to Charlotte so we can meet you all and have fun. Judy tell them we are a lot of fun and once you meet us you just want more. haha...
Welcome Angela we are so glad to have you here.
Hello Everyone! I'm a newbie to this site. I stumbled upon it by accident, but am glad to have done so! I'll be exploring the site to get to know everyone in the next couple of days. I am at the end of my recovery period of surgery. I was banded on January 16 by Dr. Gersin in Charlotte and will return to work Monday. If only I had found this site before now. Better late than never, huh? Anyway....a little about me. I live in Charlotte, single, no children, have a cat and a dog, work in medical field, and originally from Indiana. Due to the timing of my first post, I'm going to have to throw in a little shout out to my COLTS for their big game tomorrow, too :) Anyway, bear with me as I get acquainted to the site, and I look forward to getting to know everyone!
Mrs Sabre
02-04-2007, 05:04 AM
Welcome aboard Tara & congratulations on your band surgery!
Kim G
02-04-2007, 06:33 AM
Welcome and Congrats. We are happy to have you and hope you can join us in March for our next get together. I will post a pick in the NC Photo thread hopefully today so you can check us all out.
wavydaby
02-04-2007, 08:19 AM
Welcome, and since the Panthers aren't playing.. Goo Colts!!! :)
I dont like .. "Duh Bears."
JudyBellyBand
02-04-2007, 02:19 PM
Tara and RMaktba,
You both are a blessing to our little family at the NC corner of B2G. We all are just tickled pink to have you join in the fun and support that is always going on here. We are a fun group and we sincerely try to respect and support everyone through their own journey. So relax, ask questions, seek wisdom . . . well, you get the picture.
Oh and talk a lot!!!! We do or maybe I do!!!
stac1982
02-14-2007, 01:08 PM
Hello all. . . My name is Stacey and I live here in Charlotte. I am not banded yet, just waiting to hear from insurance. I am looking forward to this new step in my life. I am a patient of Dr. Vollenger's. I am married to my wonderful husband who is so supportive with all of this. It is so nice to read all the wonderful responses from you all. I hope to get to know you all much better. I do not know anyone in this area that has had bariatric surgery, so I am looking forward to talking to y'all about your experiences!
Stacey :)
Mrs Sabre
02-14-2007, 02:12 PM
Welcome Stacey! :D
JudyBellyBand
02-14-2007, 08:38 PM
Waves to Stacey :wave: and Welcome to the NC family at B2G!! You are so welcomed here. We are a bit crazy, sincerely fun, focused & unfocused at times, always deeply caring, and most importantly super supportive of each other. You will understand that better as you talk/write/read all of B2G and as you grow in knowledge and exsperance with your lap-band. Several in our NC family of B2G have had other WLS other than the lap-band; but regardless of the method or the Dr./clinic we use, we are all bonded by our mutal goal to be healthier and happier lliving in our new smaller bodies just experiencing life.
So-o-o-o :welcome: and jump in by asking questions and telling us what you think.
wavydaby
02-15-2007, 06:52 PM
WElcome and I hope you can joine one of our get togethers.
Kim G
02-17-2007, 05:56 AM
Stacy Welcome!!!! Glad you made it. (Sorry I am so late welcoming you...it's just been one of those weeks.) :)
doglover
02-17-2007, 07:08 AM
Welcome Stacy,
It's nice to have you hear.
stac1982
02-22-2007, 11:38 AM
Thanks all for the warm welcome. I would love to join y'all for one of you lunches. I saw on another thread that the date is still up in the air. I hope to meet y'all soon.
Stacey :)
bgrand
02-22-2007, 05:00 PM
Betty in Charlotte. Started my pre-op liquid diet yesterday and doing ok so far. I never realized how much my life is planned around food. I get my band on the 7th of March. Had gastric bypass Aug 2001 and gained 50 pounds.
JudyBellyBand
02-22-2007, 05:48 PM
:yo: Hello Betty,:bounce:
We are so glad to have you here. You and Linda have a lot in common as she just had the same thing you are doing. You are going to do great and we are here to help. Let us know how.
:party0018: :cheer3:
Mrs Sabre
02-23-2007, 07:04 AM
Welcome Betty G!
chained2maggie
03-01-2007, 08:21 AM
Hey guys! I'm in the process of getting approval for the LB and plan on having Dr. Voellinger perform the sugery (Hi, Kim). I'm 232 lbs and only 5'1". I know........I'm as round as I am tall! I have a lot of questions because I originally focused on having a GB. My DH is a little worried about the GB so we're compromising and I'm going fo the LB. Any information you can give me about the procedure and life afterwards (including diet) will be greated appreciated. I can't wait for my life to change!
stac1982
03-01-2007, 08:55 AM
Welcome Marsha. I think I talked to you on another post about the clothes, but just wanted to say hi and welcome to our board. I am right where you are in the process. Hopefully we will know something soon. YOu have found a wonderful place full of support and some of the sweetes gal and a few guys around. Hope you can join us for our lunch this weekend.
Mrs Sabre
03-01-2007, 10:13 AM
Welcome Marsha! Ask away, whether her or one of the main forums, people are very friendly and willing to help!
wavydaby
03-01-2007, 05:23 PM
Welcome to B2G!
Look around, come set a spell!
Time2change
09-28-2007, 09:02 PM
Hello Everyone,
I'm totally new to the the B2G support group in NC. I'm actually in SC, but very close to Charlotte. My name is Chasta and I will be banded on 10/10...I'm day 3 of my liquid diet and feeling pretty good so far. I've really enjoyed reading all the posts and just now decided to actually introduce myself. Can't wait to meet everyone at the first band meeting on the 13th. Hope I'll feel well enough to make it!:)
Kim G
09-29-2007, 11:07 AM
Welcome Chasta! It's good to have you here and jump in anywhere ask all the questions you want....we are going to be your new family!
stac1982
09-29-2007, 12:38 PM
Hey Chasta!!! Where are you at? I like right on the border of NC/SC off of Hwy 160, in Steele Creek. Sounds like you are close by. I won't be at the next meeting because we are going to the race, but I will see you at the next one!
jennyrn
09-29-2007, 09:07 PM
Hey! My name is Jenny, I am 32 and work as a nurse in the surgery department. I have a fab husband, he is an officer with the Sheriff's Dept. We have the wildest, cutest, craziest boys ever! They are 6 & 7. The are 13 mos. apart. I was banded Aug 20, 2007. I have lost a total of 36 pounds. I had lost 18 before surgery. I now love my band, the first month was a little traumatic!! I look forward to getting to know everyone!
Mrs Sabre
09-30-2007, 04:22 PM
Welcome to B2G Chasta and Jenny!
bgrand
10-01-2007, 05:54 PM
Yeah!!!!! We love newbies.
reddeborah
10-02-2007, 11:16 PM
Hi, I'm Debbie and I just found this site today after meeting a couple of great ladies in the waiting room at Dr. Voellinger's office. Hi Kim! It's so great to see a familiar face here. I'd love to join you all on the 13th. Is it a lunch or just snacks and talk? Let me know what I can bring. I live five minutes from the office and could offer up my home as an alternate spot for meetings in the future if there was ever a conflict...... hey could we do some cooking lessons here? I have a huge kitchen but don't know thing one about cooking healthy. I had my surgery last Wednesday at Mercy and everything went so well. I had NO gas pains at all and just some tenderness. The thing that keeps me from doing cartwheels is the lack of energy I'm experiencing. It must be my age, I'm 48, and I just don't bounce back like I used to. For those of you familiar with Dr. V's office and staff, I am the one who "bumped" into Renee's car today in the parking lot. I thought the pain meds were out of out my system but apparently they're not completely gone yet. I've been taken off driving duty til the end of the week. Renee is such a sweetie, she didn't even get mad at me. Love you, Renee!
So, I'm really looking forward to meeting you all on the 13th. I'm thinking by then I should have my oldget up and go back again. Oh,,, and one more thing..........................I've lost 20 pounds since I started my preop liquid diet and I'm currently losing one pound a day. I can't wait for the mushies!!!!!!
Mrs Sabre
10-06-2007, 09:21 AM
Welcome Debbie!
powersbnc
10-09-2007, 08:00 AM
Hi, my name is Beth and I live in Fort Mill. I was banded last week on 10/1/07. I have a wonderful husband and an awesome 3 year old boy. I am excited and nervous about what the next few months have to bring. I look forward to meeting you all at the next support group on Saturday.
Lovemylpband
10-09-2007, 08:27 AM
Hi gang welcome. Can't wait to meet you. I love the cooking class idea!
My brother in law is new to the area and he would love to give some lessons!
Let me know if your interested. It would be fun as a group.
stac1982
10-09-2007, 09:32 AM
Welcome Beth! Congrats on your recent banding. I won't be at the meeting this Saturday, but I am almost always there. I live close by in the Steele Creek area, right off of Hwy 160. Let me know if you need anything!
Mrs Sabre
10-10-2007, 01:32 AM
Welcome aboard Beth! Woo Hoo, our group is growing! :D
powersbnc
10-18-2007, 01:21 PM
Thanks!! Unfortunately, my husband had to work last Saturday so I couldn't make the meeting. But, I am looking forward to meeting everyone at the next meeting.
godloveshope2
10-18-2007, 09:08 PM
I would like to say welcome to all of the newbies to band2gether. Congratulations to you all on your weight loss journey!!!!!
lukin
10-30-2007, 11:54 AM
Hi everyone. My name is Craig and I'm having surgery on the 28th of November at Baptist hospital. I'm a single, 29 year old guy living in Mount Airy (Mayberry), NC. I've decided to start my pre-op diet this week, although it doesn't officially have to start until next Wednesday. So far it's been pretty tough.
ladytonya
10-30-2007, 08:44 PM
Welcome, Craig! Glad to add another North Carolinian to the bunch. We have an awesome group here!
stac1982
10-30-2007, 08:54 PM
Welcome Craig! The diet gets easier, I promise. By the end of it, you don't even want food. Good luck with everything and let us know if you need anything.
JudyBellyBand
11-02-2007, 06:59 AM
Hi Craig,
We are so excited for you and your pending surgery on 11/28/07...just days away. So how are you doing? Just be grateful for everything in your future and join in here. Oh there are wonderful men like you who frequently add great insight to the process....THANK-you Our brother "Neil" (from Texas who is part of our own NC support family).
OH Craig, we meet every second Saterday (11/12/07) month in Charlotte. I drive down from Burlington. Please consider joining us. I wish you extermely well through your surgery, Now keep posting with us.
With best regards,
Mrs Sabre
11-02-2007, 05:11 PM
Welcome Craig! Hang in there; it's worth it!
Kristina921
11-06-2007, 09:39 AM
Hello everyone! I found my way over to the NC section :)
I live in Stanley, NC...It's about 30 mins from Charlotte in Gaston County. It will be so nice to talk to people in my area!
I am going through all the pre-op stuff now...All my appts are made and I hope to have the surgery in Jan or Feb. I am going through Dr. Gersin at CMC Mercy Surgery. All I have left is the endoscopy and the nutrition consult and I should be good to submit to insurance by the beginning of December.
Looking forward to chatting!
JudyBellyBand
11-06-2007, 03:26 PM
Welcome Kristina921...you are our 61st member with us who are from the NC side of B2G. It is a pleasure to be one of the first to welcome you and congradulate you in your first steps into bandland. Although I know nothing of your doctor, I just had my surgery at Mercy also. Even with traveling down from Burlington (2.5 hour drive) for day surgery, it was a very smooth and painless process for me. I am sure it will be the same for you.
Please let us know how you are progressing and if there is anything we can do to help. God bless you and write soon.
godloveshope2
11-06-2007, 03:57 PM
Welcome Kristina. Congratulation on your journey to weight loss!!!!
stac1982
11-07-2007, 04:52 AM
Welcome Kristina!
mimi r
11-07-2007, 06:23 PM
I am new to the website. I am located in Canton, NC (papertown), 20 miles west of Asheville.
Banding set for November 19th. Am on pre-op liquid diet now. I had setback with insurance company 'renigging' on coverage last week, but I have cried & cried & cussed & fussed, but it didn't change anything so this tough broad is ready to move ahead. I found a CC with no interest until June 08, so I am not looking back.
I have 4 'semi-grown' kids (2 daughters, 32 & 30 + twin sons, 26); 2 inlaws; 3 grandkids. I have been through many obstacles in my adult life, but with God's grace & a wonderful husband, made it through. I will make it through this as well.
I am 51 years old; 4'11", 197 lbs, at my heaviest. I have been overweight since I was 20, but over all pretty healthy, but the past 5 years I have developed health problems directly attributed to my weight. As many of you I have been on every diet & weight loss program known to man & lost & gained several hundred pounds as a result. My grandmother, who was the same height as me, died at 65 with heart disease. I have decided that I want more than 14 more years.
Thank you all in advance for your words of wisdom, not to mention a few thoughts & prayers in the next few weeks.
soon2bfree
11-08-2007, 05:53 AM
Welcom Kristina and Mimi, you will find awsome support and experience here. Good Luck! I also am waiting to have surgery. Leslie
mimi r
11-08-2007, 08:03 PM
I have been walking the last week. I walked with hubby, who is 6'1". I take 3 steps to his one. Yesterday I walked with hub & daughter. They treat me like a child " You gotta pick up the pace; you gotta walk uphill; 30 minutes isn't enough." :cussing: :running:Today I walked by myself & all I can say is "Thank you, Jesus." I walked 1-1/2 miles in 30 minutes. :bolt:I am the one who always said they were allergic to excercise, but it actually felt good. Did I just say that?!#%&&&?????
4th day of liquid diet. I have really not been hungry. Granny's Chicken Palace is next door to my office, Bojangle's is across the road. :drool1:The smells in the evening as I go to my car are the hardest, but still actually haven't been that bad. I am just so ready for November 19th. I am so ready to get on with my life; make that a healthier life.
All for now.:bandme:
JudyBellyBand
11-08-2007, 08:24 PM
Mimi R, Congradulation on your upcoming surgery. Where and by who are you having it done by so I can update our list. I understand completely about the liquid diet but just remember that if you can't control your craving, it means that you are eather dehydrated and need more water or you need more protein so fix you that extra shake. You should not be hungry on the pre-op diet. I lost 11 pounds before surgery then 6 more two weeks post-op. But going back on solid food ...well let's just say I am holding my own. I wish you extremely well as you join us in bandland.
stac1982
11-09-2007, 04:27 AM
Welcome Mimi! The smells on the first few days of the liquid diet can suck, but eventually it gets better. By the end I didn't even want real food. Please continue to hang out on here with us!
Kristina921
11-09-2007, 07:53 AM
Hi Mimi! Welcome :)
ladytonya
11-09-2007, 07:56 AM
Welcome, Mimi! Wow, I don't envy you working right next to Granny's. They have the absolute BEST fried chicken I have ever had! *drool* I can't believe it's been a year since I've had fried chicken. Nice to have another WNCer here! Are you having your surgery in Asheville? I go to the support group meetings at Mission sometimes. Missed this month because I had to go to church but I will definitely try to make it in December! So, let us know where your having surgery! I know there is somewhere else around here besides Mission that is doing it but I can't remember where. I am in Asheville but drove down to Concord for mine. Asheville wouldn't do it, I was too fat! Anyway, welcome! Glad you found us here!
mimi r
11-09-2007, 08:08 PM
Day 5 Liquid Diet Pre-Op...............Dum,Dee, Dum, Dum.....:scared:
My hub started the night shift, so I am all alone, which usually is my worse temptation. But, Lord help me, I'm great. I keep pumping the
Special K protein drink :wink2: :thirsty:
& watching my NEW season 9 Seinfeld DVD's I bought today!!!:thegame:
Surgery is November 19th, 8:30 am, at St. Joseph Hospital, Asheville, by Dr. Peeter Soosar. I will stay overnight since Dr. Soosar likes to have an x-ray the next morning before you go home to make sure band is in good shape & positioned correctly. :couch2:
Well, Kramer & Newman are making sausages, so I guess I better grab another Special K!!!!!!
:spaghetti:
Thanks for all your help & encouragement.
Mimi R
Mrs Sabre
11-10-2007, 12:43 PM
Welcome Aboard Kristina & Mimi!
torbietoes
11-28-2007, 11:13 PM
Hi,
I'm Vickie from Cary. (I think there are 2 Vickie's from Cary!)
I'm just beginning this process. My insurance supposedly covers this and I'll be calling their Care Coordination Department tomorrow to get the details of what I need to do to be approved.
Is there a Raleigh group that meets?
JudyBellyBand
11-29-2007, 06:26 AM
Hi Vickie -- Welcome to our community here. You have much to research and if we can help, please let us know. I am not aware of any group meeting in Cary or area; but I think there is one in Wake Forst or Durham area. You might check out more at either: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NC_WLS_Information_and_Support/messages or contact: Beth Garrison -- Wake Forest, NC 27587.paulbethgarrison2004@yahoo.com I would start with Beth.
Hi folks. Im Rich. Sat was my first group meeting. I had a great time. All the laddies were very open, and made me feel comfortable. I hope to be banded soon, and will share my journey with all. thanks Rich
bgrand
12-08-2007, 10:45 PM
Rich..it was a delight to meet you and look forward to becoming one of your band sisters.
Rich--I loved meeting you too! Now where else can you be surrounded by so many women! Rock on!
Cari K
01-12-2008, 05:26 PM
Hi, I am Cari and heard about this board from my NP at yesterday's appointment. I live in WNC in Fletcher (near Asheville) with my DH of almost 2 years. I am in my 4th month of the lap band process and my papers are about to be filed at the end of January for my insurance approval (fingers crossed). I have gone through everything and now the waiting begins. I will be getting the surgery with Dr. Chris Edwards at Mission Hospital. I have BCBS NC state plan which covers it, I am just hoping it will cover it for me!
I am starting to get nervous as it gets closer, but I am so excited too. I just really need my insurance to cover this, as I don't think we can do self pay at all. I really like this site and am very happy to have found this board. I have enjoyed reading everyone's posts and look forward to reading more!
Cari
Welcome, Cari!! Keep posting and letting us know where you are in the process.
Lovemylpband
01-14-2008, 09:32 AM
Welocme Cari! It is so normal to be nervous. Were all here for you.
Neal R.
01-14-2008, 11:24 AM
Hi Cari. Welcome. :)
godloveshope2
01-14-2008, 01:02 PM
Hi Cari and congrats on your journey to weight loss!!!!!!!!
Kim G
01-14-2008, 05:45 PM
Welcome.....jump on in and join us. You can pretty much get our life history off this board. haha....
Lovemylpband
01-16-2008, 07:41 AM
Welcome Cari!
Marissa
01-17-2008, 09:30 AM
Hello everyone! My name is Marissa, I'm 26 years old and live in Concord with my husband, Dave. I had my LapBand surgery on November 20th, and I love it! I had my first fill this morning, so far so good. Since my highest weight, this past summer, I have lost a total of 52 pounds...so, I'm feeling really good about that. Hope everyone is having a great day!
Marissa
Kim G
01-17-2008, 10:02 AM
Hey Marissa - I too live in Concord. :) Congrats on your band and your first fill. Welcome to the boards and please jump in anywhere...it's great to have you. You are doing GREAT! Hope to meet you in person one day. We all are a little crazy around here. haha....
bgrand
01-17-2008, 11:50 AM
Welcome Marissa
blueeyes1869
01-18-2008, 02:40 AM
Hi Marissa! I am Sarah and I am in Concord as well, new here also - have not yet had my band, just before my seminar. I have found so much help here and even without posting have learned so much more than you can with another source. Good luck with everything - hopefully I will be able to report good things by this time next year (and hopefully sooner if all goes well)!
Marissa
01-18-2008, 05:19 AM
Hi ladies! Thank you so much for the warm welcome. I'm a member of SparkPeople.com, LapBandTalk.com and ObesityHelp.com, but this was the first time I'd heard of B2g... where have I been? :crazy:
Sarah - best wishes on your LapBand journey! It seems like you and I have quite a few similarities.
I have yet to go to a support group meeting...I'm beginning to think that I'd really like to be involved in one. Can you guys recommend on in the Concord area for me?
Looking forward to getting to know all of you ladies!
godloveshope2
01-18-2008, 09:39 AM
Welcome Marissa. Congratulations on your journey to weight loss
Patrick
01-18-2008, 01:03 PM
Hi; My name is Patrick. I was banded mid July last year by Dr. V. (my wife was banded two weeks later). Have lost 60 lbs so far and am very, very, very (did I say very, yet) happy with my band. I have been to a couple of the NC band support meetings and would highly recommend them to all. Always informative plus the fact that you always feel understood about your struggles.
Mrs Sabre
01-18-2008, 05:31 PM
Welcome Marissa, Sarah, & Patrick! :D
Kim G
01-19-2008, 05:38 AM
Hi ladies! Thank you so much for the warm welcome. I'm a member of SparkPeople.com, LapBandTalk.com and ObesityHelp.com, but this was the first time I'd heard of B2g... where have I been? :crazy:
Sarah - best wishes on your LapBand journey! It seems like you and I have quite a few similarities.
I have yet to go to a support group meeting...I'm beginning to think that I'd really like to be involved in one. Can you guys recommend on in the Concord area for me?
Looking forward to getting to know all of you ladies!
The only support I know of in Concord is held @ Northeast, not sure of the date or time. Sorry! I know it's for all types of WLS patients and I think it's what they call an open support group meaning that it's open to any surgeon's patients. I personally have never been becuase I have been w/ the lap-band folks since I was banded. Our little group has grown so much that we started having it @ Southeast Bariatrics (yes I work there) the 2nd saturday of every month. Dr V had sent me to Support Group training and so now I get to use it. :) At any rate....I try to post about it about 2 weeks before the meeting to remind everyone. So no matter where you go you will need support it is what has pulled me through the last 2 1/2 years. Oh our support group on Saturday is band focused. Anyone is welcome but the talk is mostly all band. :nod:
Welcome - Sarah, Patrick and Michelle!!!! (Glad to Patrick posting here we need more guys on the boards. :) )
Renea
08-11-2008, 03:59 AM
hello everyone I am new so here is a little about me.
my name is Renea first name Joanna but go by Renea. I am from Belmont N.C and am now waiting for a date to get my band. I am excited, Scared, glad all rolled into one. But know it is the right choice for me.
I have many health problems and want to get hold to them before something happens to me. Being a nurse and knowing what I know I wonder how I got in this shape, But I am human. The biggest fear I have is losing my feet and legs my dad did before he died. I also dont want to have to have someone take care of me. I am a caregiver, a mother and a wife and I want to be the one to take care of them so I need to take care of myself. I have been married 26 years and have a 25 year old daughter. Who is a wonderful girl and a support she is very strong is in the army and has been deployed to Iraq twice first time turned 21 in the desert. :usa::usa: When I grow up I want to be like her. My husband is sweetest man and loves me dearly. Loves me the way I am. But will support me even though he is nervous. I am his "honeylamb" :flower_hugs: I have a cat she is a diva kitty. I hope I didnt bore you. I am usually backwards when it comes to things like this but i cant wait to be a true bandster. So say a prayer it wont be long. Dr V is my doc and I went to my first support group Sat by myself so I am becoming a stronger person than I thought I was cant wait to get to know you all.
Renea
503-250
08-11-2008, 09:29 AM
Wow, you chose a great place to live to be a bandster...NC seems to be the core of this place as far as bandster get togethers, fun people and big parties. They also seem to have cornered some of the hottest chicas on the market.
Best of luck!
stac1982
08-11-2008, 10:39 AM
Welcome Renea! This is Stacey from Saturday. So glad you have made it here. Stick with us and you will do great!
Kim G
08-11-2008, 11:19 AM
Welcome Renea...I am glad you found your way here. :) Hope to see you at more of the gatherings and get togethers!!!!
bgrand
08-11-2008, 06:44 PM
Welcome Renae. Looking forward to seeing less of you, more often!!!
Mrs Sabre
08-16-2008, 03:09 AM
Welcome Renea! There are a few of us in the Belmont/Mt Holly area. Maybe we can get together locally sometime?
afisher4band
08-16-2008, 05:05 PM
Welcome... I was at support group but I do not remember who you were but anyway I am glad you are here and I also live in Belmont! Hope things go quickly for you!
Lovemylpband
08-16-2008, 09:22 PM
welcome Renea! I'm glad you went to the support group last week that is a great way to get moving on your band life.
RaceGirl88
01-15-2009, 04:35 PM
Hey everyone! This is my first post and I have officially begun the journey towards a better me....My name is Jerra and I am in Charlotte. I know that as I progress along the way it would be very beneifical to bond with others in the area and I am beyond excited to be at this point and to get to know everyone and make some new friends! :thumb:
ladytonya
01-15-2009, 08:38 PM
Welcome, Jerra! There are a great bunch on here from the Charlotte area. Of course one of the Charlotte girl's works at your doctor's office, Kim G. Anyway, welcome!
BTW, I love your screen name! Go Junior!
bgrand
01-16-2009, 08:02 AM
Jerra, we gotta meet you!!!!!!
redgrldj
01-16-2009, 08:34 AM
Jerra I am sooo jealous.. I wanna be in N.C. ( minues the cold).. The best of the best of the banded live there .. Great bunch of ladies who support each other..
RaceGirl88
01-18-2009, 04:48 PM
Thanks ladies! Are there any local Charlotte get togethers? If so I would love to meet up, and if not, we should arrange one!
bgrand
01-18-2009, 06:51 PM
Jerra, what part of Charlotte do you live in? There are a few of us that get together from the Ballentine area, and some of the girls are in the Concord/Mooresville/Mount Holly, etc.
So depending on what part of town your willing to travel to, there is always a group willing to meet.
I live Central Charlotte, so I am available to meet up wherever. And if you love to shop til you drop, and go to Starbucks, then i will have to adopt you....lol
PM me if you like and we can set something up for you to meet some of us.
little t
01-18-2009, 07:41 PM
How is it that I have never seen this thread?? You all know me here for the most part, but I see that there are some new peeps, so I will tell you a little about myself.
I live in Mooresville, just north of Charlotte. Married, 2 step-kids, banded in November 2006, work full time in a small community bank, I play tennis and I love to go out with my band friends, so if anyone is looking for fun...PM ME!
bgrand
01-18-2009, 08:12 PM
Tami, sounds like you got a personal ad going....lol
godloveshope2
01-19-2009, 07:46 AM
Welcome Jerra!!!!
little t
01-19-2009, 08:20 AM
I am! I am taking friend applications!
CorporateMike
06-25-2009, 12:17 PM
Hey everyone. I started the process about a year ago. Waiting to see a counselor to get cleared for surgery (loooong story). But I hope to get this over with soon. LOL.I find the waiting is the worst part. Just thought I would drop in and say hello. So, hello. I am working with Dr. Voellinger in Charlotte, I really like him.
ladytonya
06-27-2009, 12:05 PM
Hey, Mike! Welcome to B2G! There is a group in Charlotte that has regular meetings on Saturdays, don't remember which Saturday of the month it is. Kim who does the insurance at Dr. V's office is on here and she usually posts here when there are meetings. Good luck with getting through the process and keep us updated on your progress!
CorporateMike
06-27-2009, 04:39 PM
I hope it goes through. LOL. Any tips for talking to the counselor?
CorporateMike
06-27-2009, 04:41 PM
Should I go in and after every question act like I am consulting with an invisible attorney? LOL.
ladytonya
06-27-2009, 09:38 PM
The best way to get through that appointment is to be honest! I dreaded it and it wasn't that bad. You might ask some of Dr. V's patients because I think they all went through the same psych, they might be able to give you a better idea of what to expect. Of course, if any of them came around here any more they could probably answer themselves! Yoo hoo! Where is everybody?
Patrick
06-29-2009, 03:28 PM
Hi Mike, welcome. Dr V. is a great surgeon and he and his staff will do everything in their power to assist you with the process. Our meetings are usually held on the second Sat each month at 11:30 am. Do contact Kim at the Dr office and she will give you all the pertinent details. Just keep going forward and things will always work out.
Mike,
I felt like I failed one question - because I could not remember when the first fill is... but mine will be about 6 weeks out (not there yet) -but it is not a test - just an understanding of the process.
The important thing is to be honest with yourself as to the reasons you are where you are - and why you want to go forward with the surgery, and your ability to follow the guidelines.
CorporateMike
07-09-2009, 11:43 AM
Well, I went to see the psychiatrist yesterday. got the OK for the surgery. I was worried and found that I had good reason to be.
Long story short, the person who handled me initial psychiatric consultation had flubbed my history. According to this person, I had been hospitalized for several months due to a breakdown and also missed three months of work due to another breakdown. True, I did have two episodes that required a physician, but it was strictly outpatient treatment. I had to go through the whole story with the therapist yesterday and correct those items.
I am happy that my surgery is back on, but at the same time, I am HIGHLY irritated with this person for fumbling things so badly. I am thinking of sending a terse, but respectful letter to their boss outlining the mistake and what it has cost me. Would this do any good, or should I just be happy that my surgery is back on track and get over it?
Also, has anyone else had this problem? I am not trying to start trouble or slam anyone. I do not believe this person to be dishonest or even incompetent. I just personally believe that this person dropped the ball and has made things difficult for me the past few months.
I mean no offence and am looking forward to working with the surgeon and everyone. I appreciate everyone's support on this board as well. Any advice you could give would be greatly appreciated as I only wish to prevent this from happening to anyone else. In the grand scheme of things it is not a big deal, but it is very frustrating to have to jump through extra hoops because something was not done properly.
I thank you again for any advice you can spare.
Thanks,
Mike.
CorporateMike
07-15-2009, 01:06 PM
Jsut spoke with the person who handled my initial consultation. she said she reviewed her notes and had made an error in regards to my situation. She apologized and said that she would write an addendum to the original report detailing the corrections along with the follow-up note from the second therapist. She was very nice about the whole thing and things seem to be back on track.
MoOrLess
07-15-2009, 02:12 PM
Mike - I'd say call and talk to KIM. She works for Dr. V AND has been a member on this board for a long time. She can probably recommend what the best course of action would be for what happened to you. You're right - it shouldn't have happened to you and certainly shouldn't happen to the next person.
Kudos for hanging in there - sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and you stayed calm and got things worked out.
firefighter30603
07-15-2009, 04:32 PM
IM glad to hear everything got worked out.
Patrick
07-15-2009, 04:40 PM
Patience is a necessary virtue in both the banded journey and the pre-surgery.
CorporateMike
07-15-2009, 06:47 PM
Thanks everyone. It was aggravating but I'm glad I was able to keep calm throughout. I am waiting to hear back on when they get the note from the therapist, then it's off to the races again. LOL. I appreciate these boards, I have learned A LOT since I began coming here.
cgreershrink
08-04-2009, 09:19 AM
:scared-2::scared-2::scared-2:
Hey, my name is Cori and I live in Raleigh, 3 miles south of Downtown. I am working with Dr. Bruce (he works with Dr. Enoch) and everyone is super nice and super efficient. I have a BMI of 38 and I am worried BSBC (PPO) will deny me. I have an upper endoscopy this Thursday and my psych eval is in an hour. Keep your fingers crossed!:scared-2:
alucy1967
08-04-2009, 09:24 AM
Nice to meet your Cori, I live in Hickory. Hope all goes well for you today! :)
Patrick
08-04-2009, 05:33 PM
We are with you Cori, and will give you our full support.
kristina
08-29-2009, 10:37 AM
hey guys! are any of you North Carolinians coming to the conference???? i sure hope so. and is this the right thread? it doesnt look very long. hmm. angel help me out here!
Mrs Sabre
08-30-2009, 04:38 AM
Kristina, I certainly wish I could. I can't get away from work during that time. :( I went to the conference last year, and it was awesome! :)
Patrick
08-30-2009, 05:39 AM
Yes, Kristina. This is one of the threads that NC uses. We also usually have a chat thread as well. Do not know how many from here are coming. We had a huge turnout at the last one (of course it was in Charlotte). I do know that I am not able to work out my schedule to come to this one. I have posted that on the other thread many weeks ago.
kristina
08-30-2009, 10:24 AM
i know u cant come angel. i already had a minor hissy fit about it...sorry i will miss u 2 Sabre!
is there anyone flying in from N.CA? i havent seen much of yall...and i would just love to meet all of my heros!
Patrick
08-30-2009, 05:06 PM
I will ask around, but, I have not heard of anyone from this area planning on going. That is a shame. I do know that our main group has seemed to splinter up the last few months as everybody started going in different directions. At our Sat support group, sometimes I am the only face I know.
Patrick
08-30-2009, 05:07 PM
Thinking about that, that might not be bad. I hope it is because people are getting with their lives and getting involved in activities that they would not have in past years. I do like to be optimistic.
kristina
08-30-2009, 05:26 PM
LOL- i know..but i miss everyone! and i would have loved to meet yall. glad to hear ur still doing support group meetings...i think they are as important as AA for alcoholics.
Psimer
11-17-2009, 01:44 PM
I am new here and need all the help I can get. I am just starting the process for lap band surgery. I an still checking out doctors and in February I expect to get started in the process. I am in Charlotte and I am hoping to find a support group.
firefighter30603
11-17-2009, 03:10 PM
Hey, you have come to the right place. We actually have a support group in Charlotte led by Kim G. It is mostly Dr Vollingers patients but they let me come too and I will be doctor Pirello's patient (at Presby Matthews). I haven't been banded yet but these guys are the greatest. Welcome to B2G
Patrick
11-19-2009, 08:06 PM
Come one, come all, it is a great meeting every time.
Psimer
02-14-2010, 11:59 AM
When and where do you meet? I am really searching around and I want to get involved.
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