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PhotoNut
02-28-2007, 11:58 AM
This article is not about the band, it is about dieting. However, since our band is merely a tool which aids us in "dieting" (like it or not, that's what we're doing :P) I thought this would be helpful to all.

Get On a Losing Streak

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By Tricia Long, Women's Health Last Updated: 12/01/2006 09:18:26

If going on a diet were easy, it wouldn't be called a diet, it would just be "lunch." Still, we often feel like a new body really is within reach. But while it's easy to eat right, stay strong, and resist temptation early on, it gets trickier and downright treacherous as time passes which is probably why nearly 80 percent of diets fail.

To join the 20 percent who reach the land of leanness, you need to know what tests you'll face along the way and what strategies you can use to best those tests. Keep this week-by-week diet guide handy and turn your resolution into a revolution.

Week 1
The hard part: You're starving. Really, really starving.

Get through it by...not skimping on breakfast. If you're ravenous during the first few days of your diet, it's because eating fewer calories has your body producing extra ghrelin, a hormone responsible for making you hungry, says Robert Kraemer, Ph.D., professor of kinesiology and health studies at Southeastern Louisiana University.

To reduce ghrelin levels while still keeping your calories under control, focus on breakfast. Researchers in the Netherlands found that those who started the day with a high-calorie meal rich in complex carbohydrates produced 33 percent less ghrelin throughout the day and were more likely to feel fuller longer. Aim for a breakfast that's 20 percent of your caloric needs for the day (about 350 calories) and full of slow-burning complex carbs. That means a bowl of raisin bran and one slice of whole-wheat toast with jam, or half a cup of multigrain oatmeal and half a sliced banana sprinkled into a small container of vanilla low-fat yogurt.

Week 2
The hard part: Going low- cal is making you uptight and edgy.

Get through it by... reaching out to your friends. It's no secret that diets are as tough on your mind as they are on your body: A recent UCLA study linked dieting to chronic stress. "The big part of dieting is changing a behavior, which can be stressful," says Mollie Smith, R.D., a lecturer at California State University's Fresno campus. Unfortunately, tension is doubly dangerous for dieters. Not only can it make you revert to your old eating habits, but it can also keep you fat because cortisol, a hormone released during stress, slows down weight loss.?

This is when you need to rely on your friends for support or even enlist them to join you in your weight-loss crusade. Researchers from the United Kingdom found that women who dieted as part of a group had less stress than those who went it alone. "Group support is very helpful: It allows you to share frustrations with other people and learn successful ways to deal with change from other people," Smith says. And have faith: If you've made it this far, you're only a few days away from having things feel easier. "After 21 days a repeated action becomes a habit," says Rovenia Brock, Ph.D., a nutritionist for BET.

Week 3
The hard part: PMS munchies have you craving ice cream and potato chips in the same bowl.

Get through it by... eating more often. During the final 14 days of your menstrual cycle, called the luteal phase, progesterone is elevated. When that happens, the feel-good hormone serotonin decreases, along with endorphins and dopamine, two chemicals responsible for helping your body fight stress. The combination makes your mood plummet and your appetite soar. Additionally, insulin sensitivity increases during this phase of the cycle, which can increase your desire to eat.

During this cravings-crazy time of the month, skip your normal 9 A.M., noon, and 6 P.M. feedings and switch to smaller meals spread throughout the day. "Eating four to six small meals a day will stabilize your blood sugar, cut fatigue, and also prevent bloating and lethargic feelings that can lead to overeating," says Gay Riley, R.D., founder of NetNutritionist.com.

Week 6
The hard part: The scale hasn't budged, despite your best efforts.

Get through it by... trying on your skinny jeans. After about 6 weeks of steady exercise you'll notice you have more muscle and less fat. That's a good thing even though it can temporarily stall the needle on your scale. "Muscle tissue weighs more than fat tissue because it's 70 percent water, while fat is 20 percent water," Riley says. But even though your weight might not be dropping, you're still making progress because your new muscle is helping you burn even more fat. (Muscle tissue uses more calories than fat cells do just to stay alive. So the more muscle you possess, the more calories you'll burn even when you're not working out.) To curb the frustration you feel at this point in your diet, look for other ways to measure your progress. Do your clothes feel more comfortable? Can you hold a conversation when you jog? Do you look better? All those count for as much as, if not more than, what the scale says.

Month 6
The hard part: After steadily losing weight, you stop.

Get through it by... skipping the gym for a week. Take heart in the fact that you're not alone. "Most research shows that weight loss slows or stops at 6 months," says Julie Meyer, R.D., a dietician from Brooklyn. Too much time at the gym can make your body too efficient it figures out how to do the same moves burning fewer calories. Taking time off can be just what your body needs to jolt it back into gear. Do some light jogging during your off time, and come back to a new routine, says Eddie Carrington, fitness director at Bally Total Fitness. The change should be enough to shock your body back into weight loss.

Year 1
The hard part: You get cocky, thinking you've figured out this diet thing.

Get through it by... knowing that year 2 is just as important as year 1.

After a year you've likely assimilated healthy eating and exercise into your daily life. But you're not quite finished. The world we live in including fast food and eating on the run can make it easy to slide back into old dietary habits. "Right now all these forces are coming together so that when people lose weight, it can be difficult to avoid regaining that weight," says David Gee, Ph.D., professor of food science and nutrition at Central Washington University.

To keep yourself on track, reward yourself for 365 days of success with a body-based treat, such as a new winter wardrobe or a massage. Then get psyched for next year by setting new goals. "If you ran the half marathon last year, this year vow to run the full marathon," says Lona Sandon, R.D., an assistant professor of clinical nutrition at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center and spokeswoman for the American Dietetic Association. If you vowed to lose 20 pounds but only lost 15, change your goal to a number-free one: finishing a triathlon, wearing a bikini by May.

The good news: If you can keep your healthy habits for another year, you're likely to be a long-term loser. According to a study in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, those who maintain a consistent diet through each week for 2 years are 50 percent less likely to regain the weight. You've made it this far; why give up now?

Natural-1
02-28-2007, 12:17 PM
That's a great article P'nut. I'm going to print it out and look at it as often as I need to. In particular week #3, I still deal with this every month and I normally go crazy when I see that 5lb gain. I really need to get a grip and recognize that time of the month!

Anyway, thanks for the helpful information.

Jachut
02-28-2007, 05:26 PM
I can take a few things from that.

I have an appointment for a fill this afternoon but I'm really umming and aahing about going because I do have good restriction at times. When I sit down to eat a meal, I can only eat an appropriate amount and I am very slow. So I dont want to change that. What I am doing is giving into head hunger and a fill will probably help for a while, but it wont help long term and it may make me too tight. I value my social life and ability to eat "normally" very highly, dont want to mess with it.

I need to eat MORE at mealtimes, that always works for me to quell head hunger. Its my worst habit, not eating a meal or not eating enough, it puts me out of whack because then I just snack snack snack.

And I really do want to change the exercise around, my goal is to do more circuit type training and less long runs. My legs are really suffering from the pounding, need to do something different and run a bit less.

I'm so close, yet its taking me SO long. I havent lost anything at all for five weeks now, and only about 3kg in the last four months.

But I really think that a fill is too easy - the problems are with me, not my level of restriction.

Interestingly, after a year I am looking at this second year as consolidation time and kind of felt that if I got through it the weight would stay gone. I do feel very much changed after 14 months!

PhotoNut
02-28-2007, 05:37 PM
I have an appointment for a fill this afternoon but I'm really umming and aahing about going because I do have good restriction at times. When I sit down to eat a meal, I can only eat an appropriate amount and I am very slow. So I dont want to change that. What I am doing is giving into head hunger and a fill will probably help for a while, but it wont help long term and it may make me too tight. I value my social life and ability to eat "normally" very highly, dont want to mess with it.
I think this is a very wise assement of your current restriction. Listen to that wisdom.
Fixing something that isn't broken usually screws it up.

Alicia521
02-28-2007, 06:54 PM
Man this is so true. I totally slowed down after 6 months. Now if only I could get it to pick back up!

Jachut
02-28-2007, 07:57 PM
Its so hard isnt it?

I dont think there's a fill level that will stop head hunger! I just cancelled, an hour before I"m due there, lol.

I dont tend to eat rubbish, but late this morning I got through a banana, a yogurt and then half an hour later a tuna sandwich. I had meusli for breakfast. Which is all fine but its maintenance eating, not dieting iykwim.

But I get tight at night and can only eat a little and very carefully and I think one more fill and bye bye eating out or at anyone else's home, which I wouldnt want. Sigh.

Thanks for the kick in the bum p'nut, this post was just what I needed to remind me to get with the program.

lil'bitty
02-28-2007, 08:05 PM
P'Nut, thanks again for such great info. I usually cut and paste into word and print and save all your good info. Thanks!!

kebsa
03-01-2007, 05:28 AM
I came across this piece about the characteristics of emotional eaters/eating- I could relate to alot of what the writer describes. The table that describes the characteristics of emotional vs physical hunger was paticularly interesting to me.

Emotional Eaters



by Doreen Virtue, Ph.D.

Emotion Eaters are often at a loss to explain why the pounds they've lost creep back again, and they may blame themselves for their lack of willpower. But, in truth, it's really a lack of self-awareness that's to blame -- not being aware of what it is that drives them to eat so much.
Here are the characteristics:
· The Emotion Eater only overeats when she's feeling a strong emotion, such as anger or depression.
· The Emotion Eater frequently overeats immediately after getting home from work.
· The Emotion Eater tends to eat whenever she is bored.
· Sometimes, out of the blue, the Emotion Eater finds that she is incredibly hungry, and she almost feels as if she's starving for food.

The Emotion Eater usually feels uncomfortable openly displaying or talking about her feelings. The metaphysical basis of emotion eating is a belief that other people keep interfering with her attempts to fulfill her life purpose. She believes that if only her children, neighbors, boss, co-workers, teachers, parents, and lover would cooperate, she could get to work on her purpose.
The affirmation for the Emotion Eater is:
"I am the sole creator of my life. I choose now to put loving, creative, and consistent energy and enthusiastic effort into discovering and fulfilling my life purpose. I take total responsibility for structuring my time."
One of the main "problems" that Emotion Eaters face is that they feel hungry a great deal of the time. Their solution in the past has been to eat every time they felt hungry. Unfortunately, since they were often so hungry, this meant that they would eat a lot of food and gain a lot of weight in the process.
Step #1: Identify Your Fattening Feelings

If you are someone who eats to quell emotions, it's important, at this point, to start paying attention to your feelings of hunger. What you'll probably discover in doing so is that much of what you've labeled hunger is actually something else -- anger, boredom, fatigue, depression, or loneliness.
There are huge differences between emotional hunger and physical hunger, as the chart that follows outlines:


The Eight Traits of Emotional Hunger

Emotional Hunger

1. Is sudden. One minute you're not even thinking about food, the next minute you're starving. You hunger goes from 0-60 within a short period of time.
Physcal
Is gradual. Your stomach rumbles. One hour later, it growls. Physical hunger gives you steadily progressive clues that it's time to eat.
2.Emotional Hunger- Is for a specific food. Your cravings are for one certain type of food, such as pasta, chocolate, or a cheeseburger. With emotional eating, you feel that you need to eat that particular food. No substitute will do!
Physical Hunger-Is open to different foods. With physical hunger, you may have food preferences, but they are flexible. You are open to alternate choices.
3.Emotional Hunger Is "above the neck." An emotionally based craving begins in the mouth and the mind. Your mouth wants to taste the pizza, chocolate, or doughnut. Your mind whirls with thoughts about your desired food.
Physical Hunger-Is based in the stomach. Physical hunger is recognizable by stomach sensations. You feel gnawing, rumbling, emptiness, and even pain in your stomach with physical hunger.
4.Emotional HUnger Is urgent. Emotional hunger urges you to eat NOW! There is a desire to instantly ease emotional pain with food.
Physical Hunger-Is patient. Physical hunger would prefer that you ate soon, but doesn't command you to eat right at that very instant.
5.Emotional Hunger Is paired with an upsetting emotion. Your boss yelled at you. Your child is in trouble at school. Your spouse is in a bad mood. Emotional hunger occurs in conjunction with an upsetting situation.
Physical hunger- Happens out of physical need. Physical hunger occurs because it has been four or five hours since your last meal. You may experience light-headedness or low energy if overly hungry.
6.Emotional HUnger Involves automatic or absent-minded eating. Emotional eating can feel as if someone else's hand is scooping up the ice cream and putting it into your mouth ("automatic eating"). You may not notice that you've just eaten a whole bag of cookies ("absent-minded eating").
Physical Hunger =Involves deliberate choices and awareness of the eating. With physical hunger, you're aware of the food on your fork, in your mouth, and in your stomach. You consciously choose whether to eat half of your sandwich or the whole thing.
7.Emotional Hunger- Does not stop eating in response to fullness. Emotional overeating stems from a desire to cover up painful feelings. The person stuffs herself to deaden her troubling emotions, and she will eat second and third helpings even though her stomach may hurt from being overly full.
Physical hunger-Stops when full. Physical hunger stems from a desire to fuel and nourish the body. As soon as that intention is fulfilled, the person stops eating.
8.Emotional Hunger- Feels guilty about eating. The paradox of emotional overeating is that the person eats to feel better, and then ends up berating herself for eating cookies, cakes, or cheeseburgers. She promises to atone ("I'll exercise, diet, skip meals, etc., tomorrow").
Physical Hunger-Realizes eating is necessary. When the intent behind eating is based in physical hunger, there's no guilt or shame. The person realizes that eating, like breathing oxygen, is a necessary behavior.
(Chart from Constant Craving : What Your Food Cravings Mean and How to Overcome Them (http://amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1561701246/innerselfcom), by Doreen Virtue, Ph.D., published by Hay House, Inc., 1995)