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PhotoNut
12-25-2006, 10:18 AM
I know that many of us FEARED going out to eat after being banded. We also FEARED that we would lose the social aspect of eating out with friends. But I'm here to tell ya that there is nothing to fear!

I get more enjoyment from dining out with friends now than I did pre-banding. I no longer focus on the food, I focus on friends. Eating out with a table full of bandsters is a treat because everyone doesn't go quiet while stuffing their faces! There's more time for talking and enjoying the company of friends.

I no longer walk out of the restaraunt feeling like a stuffed pig, miserable from stuffing so much unnecessary food into my pie hole!

And (this is a big one) I no longer have to find tables with lots of aisle room for my chair. I can sit in booths or ever offer to sit at the back of the table where there's not much room behind my chair! :woot:

There are a few things to do while eating out that guarantee success. Many of which are going to come naturally because of the limits your band places on you. I got this email from SparkPeople today that I thought I'd pass on to everyone. Its exactly what I try to do when eating out.

If you haven't visited SparkPeople yet, please do! It's an excellent site filled with fab nutritional information, a place to log your food, message boards and more! Check it out at: http://www.sparkpeople.com


Beating Restaurants at their Own Game!
Dining Out Tips
-- By Becky Hand, Licensed & Registered Dietitian

Does your favorite restaurant serve piles of tempting foods on platters rather than plates? Are the biggie-sized meals at fast food restaurants trapping you into overeating? How do you deal with a bountiful breadbasket? Eating out is fun and relaxing, but you can make it healthier. Use these tried and true suggestions the next time you lock up the kitchen and step out for a meal:

Never go out while hungry. You’ll find yourself nibbling on everything that comes your way.
Foods that are grilled, baked, steamed or broiled provide healthy, flavorful alternatives. Ask how an entrée is prepared to ensure that your selection is not swimming in butter or other fattening sauce.
For pasta selections, choose a marinara sauce instead of a white cream sauce.
Order a healthy appetizer, salad, or small-sized entrée for your meal.
Select white chicken or turkey meat rather than dark meat, and have the skin removed.
Avoid the "all you can eat" and buffet-style restaurants.
Split a meal with a friend.
Get a doggie bag before the meal and put in a portion of the food when it is first served.
Avoid foods that have been prepared in heavy cream.
Eat slowly! Put your fork down between bites. It takes the stomach about 20 minutes to realize that it is full.
Order your salad or potato with the dressing, butter, sour cream, gravy and other extras on the side.
Trim all visible fat from meat.
Select fresh fruit, sorbet or frozen yogurt for dessert.
Watch the alcohol… it is loaded with calories and can lower your defenses against food, causing you to eat more.
Beware of the breadbasket. It comes early and can be refilled several times. Ask that it be brought with the meal and limit yourself to one serving.
Water is your best beverage choice. Order diet pop, tea, and coffee with artificial sweetener. Go light on the sugar and cream.
Don’t be afraid to special order menu items.

Idahobeauty
12-25-2006, 11:03 AM
AMEN SISTA!!!

This is so true. It is a totally different world when you are a bandster. These tips are awesome and can really cut calories and fat quickly. Dining out with friends IS truly a bonding experience now I used to bond with my plate and now I bond with the company I have. Now if I could figure out how to make a sugar free, low fat, high protein pecan pie I would be in business...LOL. That is my downfall for sure. I need to just not make them anymore. My family would be better off without them anyway.

PhotoNut
12-25-2006, 11:24 AM
Woah! Hang on a minute! :eek:

You mean pecan pie ISN'T fat free, sugar free, calorie free at Christmas?? Way to ruin my my fun. I suppose next you'll be telling me that there really isn't a Santa. Meaniehead! :p

Idahobeauty
12-25-2006, 11:37 AM
UMMMMMMMMm... NOPE!!! Santa is real! I swear! and we will just assume you know a different pecan pie recipe than I do!.

JDru
12-26-2006, 12:12 AM
Good tips P'Nut thanks for sharing!

LindaV
12-26-2006, 08:39 AM
Speaking of eating out......

Are any of the local Idaho group up for lunch this week????

Neal R.
12-26-2006, 01:07 PM
Great post P'Nut! I am with you, I walk in with more confidence now. Like you said, no special seating needed. I don't have to wait extra time for a table to open up because of "I can't fit in a booth moments!" I always find something I can eat even if I have to order it a special way. I am ok with wait staff looking at me because I ate so little compared to my paranoia that every one is staring at me because they are wonder how much the fat man ate. I agree with you that there is nothing to fear.

Jachut
12-26-2006, 11:37 PM
To me, the TOTAL point of being banded is to develop a normal relationship with food. That means not cutting out foods, not living on a "diet", not obsessing over a meal out and what it will mean to your weight loss this week, not obsessing about how you cant finish the restaurant meal and are therefore wasting your money on food you wont eat, not spending all your spare minutes toting up the day's protein and calories on some program or another.

Its to eat when you're hungry, eat what you feel like eating, stop when you're satisfied and then not think about food again till you're hungry again. If you're hungry in an hour, then you eat, if you're hungry in 7 hours then you eat.

Its that simple, therefore enjoying a great meal out is no sin. When you know you're not going to overeat then food isnt scary anymore. Well to me anyway.

Its the way I've approached it and I've lost weight - and I believe I have changed my relationship with food and that if I were to lose my band, then rebound weight gain is not a given. Especially with the amount of exercise I do.

debi
12-28-2006, 01:42 PM
Thanks for the post, Susan. I really appreciated that information. I'm almost there now. I had my consult with the surgeon and, hopefully, I'm about a month away from having my surgery. The surgical coordinator is out of the office until January 2, so I have to wait to get a date and final instructions. It's been a long road. I started this journey almost 6 months ago.

I've been so back and forth about this. My husband is on board with the surgery now, but he wasn't a couple of months ago. He was worried that life as we know it would no longer exist -- never going out to eat, me getting sick all the time... Now, I'm actually looking forward to beginning a new relationship with food and getting healthy.

Thanks to all of you for the support you give on this board. Hope everyone is enjoyed the holidays. Health and happiness to everyone during this new year.

Debbie

kebsa
01-01-2007, 08:23 AM
For so long I was too scared to eat infront of others, firstly because of being over weight and then because I used to PB on a daily basis. Now that the cause of the problem was diagnosed etc, I feel safer but still feel abit self conscious when eating out- not that i expect the problems anymore - just irrational fear I think

lil'bitty
01-01-2007, 10:28 AM
My neighbors sister came to our NYE Party last night and she had Gastric Bypass in July and has lost 80 lbs and looks awesome. She shared the trick about ordering the to go box in the beginning and putting half in it prior to eating. I loved that tip and will certainly practice it. I didn't know this, but there rules are VERY similar to ours. I didn't realize that.

JoyceGA
01-01-2007, 12:50 PM
Goodie, something else to taped to the refrigerator!!

Great tips!

Neal R.
01-02-2007, 01:19 PM
Great tip. I kind of did that, I portion off what I am not going to eat, but I think puting it in a box before I start would put it out of sight - out of mind. THanks for sharing!

barbara465
01-02-2007, 01:31 PM
I just got back from a 7 day cruise. I found it really fun and food wasn't a problem. We ate at the 24/hr buffet for breakfast and lunch where I could select what I wanted to eat. I took small amounts and tried several things. If it wasn't working I was able to move on to something else. Dinner I was able to enjoy the appetizers, soups, and entrees. One or two bites of each satisfied my tastes and didn't overfill my stomach. I did enjoy a cup of decaf after the meal, but I don't feel that was as bad as it could have been. I got to enjoy the company of my friends and others and never felt deprived.